God doesn't give you more than you can handle

@HazySue (39264)
Gouverneur, New York
January 13, 2017 2:25pm CST
I don't know if that reads as a threat or a promise. I guess it's all in how you look at it. I have been absent here on myLot for the last month. It has been a not too happy time and I had a lot of unpleasant things to take care of. My daughter had her little boy on December 15, that is the good news. He is beautiful. The day before he turned two weeks old he ended up in the hospital with severe respiratory distress and on oxygen. Four days late4r her was finally breathing well enough to go home. Thank goodness. The next evening my daughter, his mother, had a heart attack. They said she had coronary dissection due to pregnancy and put in a stint. She is only 37 years old. A few days later they let her go home and my mother passed away the following day. She passed in her sleep and we were thankful for that. Two days ago my daughter was put back in the hospital with high heart enzymes. I don't now what is going to happen, right now they are taking more tests trying to figure out what the heck is going on. I hope they find out soon. I am terribly concerned. I had a heart attack, just a little one, befor4e all of these things started happening so I am grounded here a few states away from my daughter so I can't see her. In any case it had been an adventure, not a good one, but an adventure for sure. They say God doesn't give you more than you can handle, I just wonder how much he is thinking I can handle. It's a good thing I have a sense of humor. Pray for us all please. I believe we need it. Image from Pixabay. I really do believe there is a rainbow at the end of all sorrow, pain, and worry. This photo has two of them.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
13 Jan 17
I was wondering why you were not writing here anymore. This is an awful lot to handle for one person. Sending you some postive thoughts and hoping that your daughter gets some good answers with the right solution.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
I am glad to say that I am now back. Thank you for you positive thoughts. She still has a blood clot in her heart but is hopeful that it will go away soon.
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@celticeagle (159173)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Jan 17
Congratulations to you and your daughter. Glad the baby was okay and hope that mom is too. A double rainbow is rare but I have seen a few in my 60+ years. My thoughts will be with you. Take care.
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@celticeagle (159173)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Feb 17
@HazySue ......I saw one right over our apartment one day a few years ago. Blood clots? That can't be fun.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
I haveseen a double rainbow only once. My mom has passed on. My daughter is still dealing with blood clot issues. It should all resolve itself before too long.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
2 Feb 17
@celticeagle no, having a blood clot in heart can rather scary.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 17
That is a lot to handle for one person. My prayers for you and your family. And totally agree with you. God will not test you more than you can handle. I'm sure you're a courageous and brave woman and will be able to overcome this hurdle in your life. May God be with you in this trying time.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Thank you. My mother has now passed and I am handling all the best that I can. Faith goes a long way in helping.
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@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
13 Jan 17
I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this so close together. I'll pray your year gets better from here on.
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@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
1 Feb 17
Isn't it funny how we always underestimate what we can do @HazySue
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
@rebelann it's nice to find out you are stronger than you thought you were.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Things are getting better. I have learned I can handle much more than I thought I could.
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
1 Feb 17
Don't worry and don't lose your hope.. my sincere prayers for you all
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
I won't. Thanks for your prayers.
@Morleyhunt (21736)
• Canada
14 Jan 17
That was a very difficult month. A good sense of humour does make things easier to bear.
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@Morleyhunt (21736)
• Canada
1 Feb 17
@HazySue I hope life is treating you a little more kindly now that we are into another month.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
2 Feb 17
@Morleyhunt it looks like this year is going to be a better one.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
You have to be able to just shake your head and let out a laugh no matter what is going on.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
14 Jan 17
I admire you when you say God gives only that much we can handle.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Thank you. It's a belief that I was taught when I was a child.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Jan 17
My prayers are with all of you. And yes, the rainbow is there for you and your loved ones.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Thank you so much. My rainbow is in sight.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
14 Jan 17
I'm sorry to hear your adventure. Yes, I likewise believe that God would not give us anything that we could not handle. He is always there to watch us. But I guess, we can not avoid thinking why he gave such sorrows, worries, or whatever to us. I hope everything's fine now. I will include you and your family in my prayers too. Get well soon. You can do it.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
It does cross the mind as to why everything that seems bad happens in the same time period. I guess the thing to do is to keep your faith thought it all and keep believing.
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• United States
13 Jan 17
My goodness...I'm wondering if heart issues are hereditary? Sounds like it could be. At least the baby is ok...and hopefully your daughter and you will be..sorry about your mom. PS: I don't think God threatens.....
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Oh, I didn't mean God was threatening, I just meant it is so much to handle. Heart conditions are hereditary, unfortunately it looks lie my daughter has taken after me. The baby is past it's respiratory issues and is wonderful now.
• United States
13 Jan 17
Sending prayers for you and your family. What a rough time you've been having. Wishing you strength to get through these difficult times
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
I did find the strength to keep moving on. It looks like it is all coming to the end of the difficult time.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Jan 17
Goodness, no wonder we haven't seen you for a while. I do hope things turn around for the better. Sending prayers and positive vibes your way.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Thanks for the prayers and positive vibes. Things are starting to settle down now. I am sure it will all look better soon.
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@suhail1 (931)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Jan 17
it is true according to my belief, god will not give you more than we can handle, i remember reading it in the holy book
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
I believe the same thing. I was wondering when it would all end.
13 Jan 17
Hope everything will be just fine!
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
Everything has a way of working out.
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
13 Jan 17
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@TheHorse (205981)
• Walnut Creek, California
2 Feb 17
Sending thoughts and prayers your way. That sounds like a lot to handle.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Feb 17
It is a lot to handle. I am fortunate that I have had my faith and all the prayers that have been sent my way.
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13 Jan 17
Totally true.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
I believe so.
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@bluefre (63)
• Manila, Philippines
2 Feb 17
I'm praying for you and your family. Stay strong!
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Feb 17
Things are starting to goodness. a little better, thank goodness. Thanks for the prayers.
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