Do you have brothers or sisters? Do you feel the existence of generation gap among your family?

China
February 15, 2017 6:57pm CST
During this long summer holiday, I spent most of my time with my younger sister. I am 4 years older than her. Although we are both post 90s, I felt huge generation gap probably brought by the 4 years' time. I can't stand her using network popular words, I can't stand her going after pop stars, I can't stand her strange friends(strange to me), and I can't stand her making up when she's so young. Besides, I thought she never cared about people around, especially my parents. I feel it's a common phenomenon that kids of post 95s are self-centered. So we always argued when we were together. I wanted her to have a right lifestyle, at least right to me. Am I a control freak who wants to eliminate the generation gap or is it impossible to change other's attitudes?
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@marguicha (215808)
• Chile
16 Feb 17
I would not say that 4 years would cause a generation gap. Maybe both of you have different personalities and that is all.
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• China
16 Feb 17
Maybe you're right. Maybe it's because I have 4 years more life experience than her .
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@marguicha (215808)
• Chile
16 Feb 17
@mavlana (1019)
• India
16 Feb 17
Yeah...there exists generation gap. But I never paid much attention to what others think. I think, it's her life and she has the right to live it. With the passage of time, she herself will understand the meaning of life and the way to live it.
@mavlana (1019)
• India
18 Feb 17
@Guolinlin2017 I can understand your affection and care for her. I hope this gap will nt spoil your relationship.
• China
21 Feb 17
@mavlana Yeah. I've been trying very hard to change my attitude to her and make us both comfortable.
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• China
18 Feb 17
Maybe I just want to protect her because I don't think she is mature enough to live independently. But I should let her to live it.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
16 Feb 17
Things happen nowadays. Luckily, my siblings and I are not in that particular situation. I think because the years apart in terms of age is not that far. If there some new things, we shared thoughts about it. It is ourselves to choose or not. Open communication is the best way to do it.
• China
16 Feb 17
I like your answer. I think it's pretty good to keep an open mind.