Where Do I Go from Here?
February 17, 2017 6:35pm CST
It is almost a year since I was transferred, together with my boss, in a new company (same group) and I often ask myself if there is a better place for me to work. The transfer was not the President's call and I guess if he had a way he would rather get new people for the new team. We, however, have the expertise that is why we were asked to join that company. Given that, we are the least favorite. I mean there should be no favoritism but we feellike the President is favoring the other team, the one he worked with for so long. Just that team head since turnover of people under him was fast. He too was not reasonable and that is a long story to share. As I have said we are turning one year yet i seems like my team head has not adjusted yet. True that during the earlier months I was one with her in complaining and criticizing current policies but I have outgrew that. I mean I have accepted that I cannot control everything but I can contril how I react. By the way my New Year's resolution is to stay positive. Since January I got aloof to her. We used to have lunch together and she would always complain about this and that and even share her frustrations to the new memberof our team who eventually resigned. I think she is not a good example because as a leader she should motivate us and not pull us down with all the negativity. On a regular day you would see her enter the office with eyebrows crossed and dhe would breathe loudly before sitying down. And oh her voice is too loud it irritates me. She would compkain that she has too much to do and so on and so forth. Last December I told her that we have to accept that this is our situation in our new post but I guess she has not accepted it yet. Now I feel unmotivated. She is older than me and more senior in position so she should know better. She is a team head. She should act as one. Still wondering where to go... or maybe I should talk to her again.
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@allen0187 have been doing that lately but I do get exhausted too. I have a lot of work as well as I am not in the office to play around. She should know. I guess she gets too panicky and she stresses herself wanting to prove something.