Unfriended.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
March 5, 2017 8:26pm CST
Do you unfriend someone you don't like? I was in Facebook last night. And I checked how many are in my friends list. Others are not active and some I don't talk to. Then I decided to clean some of them. Other friends have two accounts and it's kinda annoying. So I unfriended them all. Others always post selfies of themselves and it annoys me, so I unfriended them as well. Also there is this another friend who always rant like every minutes, so I take her out as well. Now, I have few friends in my list. Photo is from google.com - iPhone wallpaper
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
I don't have a Facebook account so I unfriend people in real life.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
7 Mar 17
@minx267 thanks!
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
6 Mar 17
LOL. good one!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Haha. And it feels right.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
6 Mar 17
before social media, i remembered how it was great to have a lot of friends, now its annoying to have many friends.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
7 Mar 17
@JustBhem - but think about it, how can they be friends if they are followers?
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Haha. Exactly and I know how you feel.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
7 Mar 17
agree with you
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@MGjhaud (23251)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
I deleted my Facebook account a long time ago with 100+ people in my friend's list. Not long before i did that, i deleted a few not because i disliked them. Only because we never chatted and i didn't see any future connections -- i just didn't see any reason why we are in each others list haha.. They were mostly ex coworkers. We were friends on Facebook for photo-tagging purposes only.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Haha. I feel you. I block some of them.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
6 Mar 17
Yeah, it's good to trim the list everyone once in awhile if you have a lot of them. It seems foreign to me, but I've heard that some people place a great deal of importance on the number of friends that they have on Facebook.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Others are very proud if they have a lot of followers while me, I'd rather have few. Those few I can talk to.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
6 Mar 17
@JustBhem ~Me, too. I generally only approve friends requests of people that I know.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
@flpoolbum Same here, if I don't know them. I will not add them.
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
Same here,too. I only have few friends in fb.
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• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@JustBhem yeah right
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
It is much better to know your circle, right?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
i was communicating with a niece last night, then suddenly, i can no longer, only to find out that she deactivated her account. i have blocked some people because they are 'nuisance' in my wall. besides, all my friends are my family and colleagues and former students who graduated already. i have 159 friends only
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@magallon really? my former students request me but i don't answer them all; i choose who i like to be my friends. and usually too, i don't follow their activities-it has to be a 'see first' mode and not default
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@ridingbet I have less than the number of friends that you have. I am very selective in accepting friend requests.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
That's few. I don't know how much I'm havjng at the moment. I still have friend request and I don't think I am ready to accept them. Lol
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
6 Mar 17
I rarely do the unfriending.. I am probably unfriended more. My cousin just unfriended me because of an argument we had, but I don't mind that at all I don't need "friends" like that. I have a big friends list - I don't delete them because I often share my products for sale, and you never know who on your friends list might be interested in buying something. I have made a few sales from Facebook. So If they delete me I don't really care. I got over 3000 more friends
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
6 Mar 17
@JustBhem That is true. I hate drama and stress. I try to keep that to a minimum in my life I noticed first hand that it can cause medical issues my body when I have to deal with high stress
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
That's a lot. I think I only have few now. They said, if you don't like them then don't stress out yourself. Lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
@minx267 I feel the same way too. It can drag us down as well. As much as possible I want to be okay and stress free. But those peope in my list cause stress.
@allknowing (130176)
• India
6 Mar 17
I unfriended most of my family on FB. I want them to be in my real life (lol)
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@allknowing (130176)
• India
6 Mar 17
@JustBhem I have a young neighbour here just opposite my house. She will not greet but wants friendship on FB. I have given it to her but I will not like a single post of hers (lol)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Me too and our nieghbors as well. Lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
@allknowing Haha. I feel you. We also have neighbors who don't talk to much, she sent me friend request and I didn't accept her. And now she's always snob me in public. Lol
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
6 Mar 17
i actually just unfriended a couple people in the last week so i know what you mean
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Mar 17
@JustBhem yes it does.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Haha. It annoys us sometimes, right?
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
I unfollow more than unfriend, hehe
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@JustBhem yes, like another way of unfriending them, silently, haha
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Hmm. Unfollow - so that you can't see their post, right?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 17
@Lucky15 Haha. Now I know. Thanks. Probably will do this instead of unfriending them.
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@fcmondez (413)
• Quezon, Philippines
6 Mar 17
I only unfriend people in facebook if they send abusive messages or post that are directed at me. I also block and report them in some cases. But for annoying posts by some, I only unfollow them.
@fcmondez (413)
• Quezon, Philippines
7 Mar 17
@JustBhem Yes. It is better since you won't be able to see their updates on your newsfeed but you can see them if you would like to when you visit their profile.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 17
@fcmondez I see. I will do that instead.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
I think I might do that unfollow thing. Thanks.
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@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
6 Mar 17
yes...i do this too. ...i needed to do this once every year...but now i feel like my list is quite clean.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
It would be okay if we only have few friends whom we can talk to. Other friends in our list are just here to sneak. I guess.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
6 Mar 17
i have unfriended many one in Facebook.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Me too.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
7 Mar 17
@JustBhem did they disturb you?
• United States
6 Mar 17
I tend to unfriend people I have not talked to in awhile. I keep my Facebook to close friends and family
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
As much possible. I'm doing that as well.
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@JudyEv (326223)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Mar 17
There isn't much point having a heap of 'friends' that you don't really want to interact with.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
I agree.
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
I don't want very many friends in my Facebook account.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
As much as possible, I keep those I can talk to.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
That's good way of cleaning your friends list. I don't usually that, but occasionally I do unfriending one or two.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
I see. I do that sometimes as well.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
6 Mar 17
I rarely remove people but if I do then it means they really annoy me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Yes, their annoying sometimes specially those selfie addicts. lol
@sans224 (1808)
6 Mar 17
i only keep real life friends in facebook. so i feel its confortable.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 17
Exactly. I also have few friends I keep.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
7 Mar 17
When I was new to Facebook, I used to do that. But nowadays, I just scroll the newsfeed and share the memes. I don't even check the messages anymore.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 17
Facebook sometimes is boring.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Mar 17
@Slayqueen It is. But for me, it is very important since I have business to attend to.
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• India
8 Mar 17
@JustBhem yeah it is boring, it spreads so much negativity sometimes that I just feel like deactivating my account.
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