Happiest at home, sadly no one will pay me to be there.

Centralia, Missouri
March 10, 2017 5:31pm CST
I am happiest at home, sadly I have yet to find a way to make money to survive and stay there. I guess maybe it will be easier once I have a FT job and good income. I think I will budget really strictly, so I can pay off debt, get things better off, and save for the day when I can stay home again. I just really do prefer being home most days, with a few trips out. I hate having to go out into the world and work. I am also tired and headachy after a day of bad students, thought it was elementary, which is what the sub website said, turns out it was Highschool and middle school kids, which are loud and crazy, and I am totally outside of my comfort zone. I never worked with kids over 8 grade pretty much anywhere. I managed, but I am not sure I want to do that again. It was something else. Still three days of subbing, and 4 of d tree will make for some nice checks next week. And since I can only sub one day next week, that will help make up for the short check I will get the following week. I have decided this is it on the truck. I am not paying anymore. I think I will park it, at the beginning of April, or so, in the closest airports long term parking and mail the X the key. I did find out today he has indeed officially moved to Little Rock, but has never provided me the address. I guess he'd rather me mail the old one and it get forwarded. He has also not paid, and I am sure has no intention, of paying the over 1k he owes me for his half of the trucks bills since October. Not surprised, just pointing out this has helped me make the decision over what to do. Excuse? Paying our "communal debt". Well I have a credit card that has our communal debt on it, and the truck is communal debt so.... I guess he means his credit card? Which I had before I left long since paid our debt off it, what was left was HIS drinking, smokes, video games, and food purchases. So...not my problem. Yeah, frustrated. Be glad when all ties are done as this is over. Two calls to the courts this week to find out when the date is set for the divorce case, and they don't answer their phone, or ever return a call. I guess I keep calling and calling, and calling. I really want this done.
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11 responses
@Susan2015 (20580)
• United States
11 Mar 17
I'm with you on that, I'd rather stay home too. Yes, you should be done paying on the truck.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
and done I am, I will let him know in a week or so that I am tapped, I already told him I had to borrow to even cover this month, and have been telling him savings was gone, and I dont make enough to cover, so he should know this is coming
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@sallypup (27071)
• Moses Lake, Washington
11 Mar 17
I'm sorry for your heartaches. You work so hard, too. Hugs from me.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
yeah, another one today
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@LadyDuck (157088)
• Switzerland
11 Mar 17
I remember I suggested you to stop paying for the truck, especially because it was in his name. I would ask to your lawyer what to do about the key, you can be held responsible to pay the airport parking and then to be obliged to bring the truck to his legal owner.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
yeah, I kept putting it off, as I wanted the divorce done first, well that may or may not happen, I just cannot pay anymore. I dont have a laywer, they all want money, of which I have none. I may just mail him the key, and park it at my grams or even just here, he can get it if he wants
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@LadyDuck (157088)
• Switzerland
13 Mar 17
@Jessicalynnt This is a good idea, let him know that the truck is there at his disposal if he wants it.
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• Centralia, Missouri
13 Mar 17
@LadyDuck I will have everything out of it, and if he says he cant get it, use it until the repo people show up, I dont know how to surrender a vehicle if you cant pay for it
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• Preston, England
11 Mar 17
hope the divorce goes through soon and you are able to get a good settlement from him - enjoy the free time you get - you deserve the R & R
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
I wont get anything, cant afford a laywer, so no way to get anything. If I had the money, I'd totally get a laywer, this mess he started, I would love alimony
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• Preston, England
13 Mar 17
@Jessicalynnt such a shame - you have such a strong case too - good luck
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• Centralia, Missouri
13 Mar 17
@arthurchappell I know, with the proof I have and all.
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@Tampa_girl7 (25678)
• United States
11 Mar 17
Just remember that "This too shall pass" you are strong girl and will survive this
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
I want it to hurry up and pass!
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@just4him (116785)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Mar 17
Won't putting the truck at the airport in long term parking cause a large fee? What will happen to it if he never claims it? I know, not your problem, just wondering. Maybe not a good idea to do that though. Whose name is the truck in? If it is both of you, then someone could come after both of you to take care of the truck. Just thinking this is not a good idea on your part. I hope you're able to connect with the courthouse soon for your court date for the divorce. You might need to go down there in person to get your answer. How will you get there if you don't have the truck? Lots to consider and I hope you think things through.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
yeah, I think those places have a top cap of how much, but I dont know. I will prob just mail him the key and leave it parked out front or at my grams, she has a side spot out of the way it can sit. His name, mine isn't on it, only on the insurance as someone who can drive it. I can't get there in person, that's a 14 hour drive sadly
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@KristenH (24049)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
11 Mar 17
TGIF! Sorry you had a bad day. Hope things get better.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
yeah, me too! Headaches the last couple
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@KristenH (24049)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
12 Mar 17
@Jessicalynnt Ahh, You need a nap or some chocolate.
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• Centralia, Missouri
13 Mar 17
@KristenH I did, do. lol
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@JudyEv (123170)
• Bunbury, Australia
11 Mar 17
That sounds like a plan for the truck. Hopefully someone will ring back re the divorce proceedings.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
I will keep calling, and yeah, I just cant pay all of it anymore. And since I doubt he will ever pay me the 1k back that should have been his share, and ate my savings, it will just have to go away
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@JudyEv (123170)
• Bunbury, Australia
13 Mar 17
@Jessicalynnt It really is so unfair.
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@hereandthere (31009)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
i hope they tell you next time what grade/year you will be subbing for so you don't get/can say no to middle school and high school again.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
me too, that was a bit of a crazy nightmare
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• United States
11 Mar 17
Until yoj can work online making big bucks...Most prop!E go out to work....Credit cards I. Your name...Your credit on the line
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 Mar 17
oh yeah, I know. I can't afford that, so out to work I go.
@RubyHawk (25105)
• Atlanta, Georgia
13 Mar 17
I am so sorry for your troubles. I hope everything works out to your advantage.
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• Centralia, Missouri
13 Mar 17
court finally called ME back, surprised there. We have called them 20 odd times, reached them once, and never gotten a call, I have a time frame for the court case now and she said she thought they had all the docs they needed finally
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