long distance marriage
By marianne
@ckciasigurl (2081)
Italy
March 28, 2017 1:00pm CST
hi mylotters..
this is us.. me and my husband..pre nup photo
i would like to share our story..
my husband work in italy
and i work here in vienna...
now we are in a long distance relationship we started our relationship long distance until now, sometimes i would like to gave up my work and go back to italy....and sacrifice but in the end i just realize that i can do this like 2 yrs more and everything will be okay we see each other every month like 1 a month...
anyone experience this also?
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10 responses
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
28 Mar 17
so we have the same situation my husband he want to come here in vienna to start a new life here thats why i am here but i dont know if that is the right choice.
he need to learn english and german
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
28 Mar 17
@MALUSE hehe your right does your husband speak german now how many years he learn it ?
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
29 Mar 17
Yess its very hard but i know the result will be okay ... i hope
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@JamesHxstatic (29257)
• Eugene, Oregon
29 Mar 17
That must be hard for both of you, but perhaps the sacrifice of time together is worth it.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
29 Mar 17
Hi james yes its very hard but i hope soon everything will be okay and im praying
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@diosabella (4789)
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29 Mar 17
I hope your relationship works. I have this kind of relationship with my boyfriend right now and communication is really important.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
29 Mar 17
Yes communication and trust is very important
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@TheDeepGuy (33)
• India
28 Mar 17
And one more thing, please try it at least once. Don't just be scared now. I mean it's better to try and fail rather than not trying itself, right?
Else, later you will always regret thinking , what if I had tried. So, better to know it and then go on.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
28 Mar 17
yes im trying to work for more months then we will see thank u
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
28 Mar 17
@TheDeepGuy thank your for your advice :=)
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@TheDeepGuy (33)
• India
28 Mar 17
Well, I am in a long distance relationship. And it's been quite a long time. We were in the same school before. But now different colleges. So almost 4 years.
It all depends on you both. If you both are ready to give in your 100% then it will surely work.
But having said all this, it surely isn't going to be easy.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
28 Mar 17
For me, for so many ways this would not be the type of Relationship I would be Happy living with, and would want to be around them all the time no matter what it takes as long as I know I could be Happy there. Being together but yet a part does not seem like a Great way to live.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
29 Mar 17
Yes this is true i just need to think 100x ??
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
29 Mar 17
Hi friend thank u and im hoping everything will be okay
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@subhajitsil6 (961)
• Kolkata, India
29 Mar 17
No I haven't had such experience, but I understand your feelings. And I also understand how hard it has been for you two. And you know the best part, even after being on such a long distance relation the love between you to seems not to lessen a bit. That is very good. Keep this up. Hope you guys soon be together and enjoy the life together.
@domiwla (398)
• Venezuela
5 Sep 18
It really would not be my taste, I do not recommend a relationship like that.
