A Sentimental Moment with Granny

@Shavkat (137220)
Philippines
March 31, 2017 10:24am CST
As I promised, I had traveled to my granny's home in the countryside yesterday. I am sure some of you read my post about her previous accident and got cracked ribs. I knew from the start that it wasn't serious. However, I still need to see it personally. At her age 98, we can't be sure 100% that she's fine. In the aging process, it is normal that the skeletal system deteriorates its functions. Bones' structure will be brittle and can easily be break especially for elders. It cannot be denied that we can still be in the same health condition. With these changes in our body, we need to accept the fact of deterioration. To cut the story short, I arrived at her house with the biggest smile. My groovy grandmother has still her jokes of seeing me around. She wasn't a granny who are so traditional. Perhaps it was being influenced by an American culture, she had stayed in America for so many years. However, she decided to go back home and be with us. By seeing her, she seems fine and just some bruises had seen. We were talking and trying to catch up. All of a sudden, she became so sentimental about her age and thinking that she might not reach 100 years of her life. She will have her birthday on June and strikes another year as 99. I was caught off guard with her statements. As a Joker, I tried to make her laugh and said, she has 150 years contract with God to stay here on earth. It brightens her face and laughed with me. In fact, she doesn’t want to live more than a hundred year. While talking with her, I feel like talking to someone who is going to die. But I told her to stay and enjoy life while she is still with us. I don’t want her to think a lot. When I left today, she seems relaxed and calmed. I promised to see her again soon. Image Credit: pixabay.com
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• United States
31 Mar 17
Your granny is lucky her injuries weren't worse especially at her age. I hope she lives many more years as she sounds like a great lady. Lucky you having her around for so long
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
The family was really blessed having her in our lives. It is a good thing that she didn't fell bad. I told her to be extra careful.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
6 Apr 17
@Marilynda You are right he is lucky to have her around so long. I hope I make it that long.
@Ceerios (4698)
• Goodfellow, Texas
31 Mar 17
@Shavkat - I think that maybe your lively Grandma might live into the 200's or maybe more. She certainly is a lively one... much like the image you posted with your discussion. -Gus-
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
You speak like an angel. I hope she will longer.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
@Ceerios The memories will last a lifetime. I agree on that.
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@Ceerios (4698)
• Goodfellow, Texas
31 Mar 17
@Shavkat - She will live longer. If not with both feet kicking and jumping, then living long in good memories of everyone who knew her. -Gus-
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
Her attitude in life helped her reach that age, I am glad she is fine.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
@Shavkat it's nice you still have her, your story made me miss my granny who passed away age 90, also very funny and with a very sharp mind and memory to the end.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
@louievill My granny has also a sharp mind too. I hope she can still more than her age.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
She is a funny granny. You won't feel any dull moments with her. That's the reason why I felt bad when she got an accident.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 17
I'm glad that you are a good grandson - she obviously hasn't got a lot of time left, so it's nice if she can enjoy it.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
4 Apr 17
I agree. That's what we are trying to give. Time is too short when I visited her. I am sure next time; my granny and I will have the time to browse all the old photos.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
3 Apr 17
That was so kind of you. Frequent visits from family and friends will give her something to live for. Glad she is ok.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
4 Apr 17
Thank God that she is fine. I was so worried when I heard the news. I will visit her soon again.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
7 Apr 17
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
6 Apr 17
@Shavkat That's good to hear.
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• Philippines
31 Mar 17
That is so nice of you to pay her a visit. Good to hear that she is okay.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
I am so happy to see her with a good condition after she fell down from her wheelchair.
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• Philippines
31 Mar 17
@Shavkat tell her to be careful all the time.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
@nottoooldtowrite I did, my friend. I also gave home instruction to her caregiver.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
4 Apr 17
It is hard to watch as people get older. Because you never know when something will happen that will change their and your life forever. Glad you could be there to enjoy the day together.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
4 Apr 17
I agree. I also felt like what will happen to me at her age. For now, I am still hoping that she will still live longer.
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Apr 17
I am glad that your granny stays well. 98 years old is a very old age but she doesn't sound like that old
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Apr 17
@Shavkat It is good to have a long life and stay healthy.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
13 Apr 17
@youless She is healthy. I am trying to ask her secret.lol
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
13 Apr 17
She wasn't old mentally. Physically? She still rocks her to way to Casino.lol
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• Pamplona, Spain
31 Mar 17
Really nice of you to go and see her and make her laugh too. She is some Lady to reach that age. Just imagine 99 in June wow that is really something. Glad she is feeling better than what she did.
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• Pamplona, Spain
1 Apr 17
@Shavkat My Aunties were sharp for their age too. I know its not dementia very healthy lady going into 99 yay.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 Apr 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 That's what my granny worries about her age. lol
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
1 Apr 17
She is really a Joker, my friend. Some people even think that she is in dementia. But it wasn't. She has a very sharp mind too.
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@allknowing (130092)
• India
4 Apr 17
Bonding with elders is on the decline these days. Glad you belong to the old school of thought.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
4 Apr 17
I think my parents taught us to be. I also felt bad that there are some young ones who lost touch of the culture.
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
3 Apr 17
There is not much time left @Shavkat Be sure to visit her often. Those memories will carry you through when she is gone.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
5 Apr 17
@PatZAnthony That's what happened to my old man. He passed away so sudden three years ago.
@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
4 Apr 17
I totally agree with you. I always tried my best to see her as often as possible.
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
5 Apr 17
@Shavkat It is terrible that they are with us one minute and can be gone the next.
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@1creekgirl (40615)
• United States
31 Mar 17
Oh, that is so sad, yet uplifting. I know you treasure every moment you have with her.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
She is the only elders in the family. We showered her all the things she needs to enjoy life.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
31 Mar 17
@1creekgirl Thank you, my friend. I think I am.
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@1creekgirl (40615)
• United States
31 Mar 17
@Shavkat You sound like a very loving grandson.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
5 Apr 17
That is so nice that you visit her and make her happy. She surely appreciates it.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
5 Apr 17
I can't explain how happy she is. I hope to see her again soon.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
6 Apr 17
@Shavkat Granny's love to see young people. I know, I am a granny too.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
1 Apr 17
you are so lucky and fortunate to have a living grandparent. they are usually making us their favorite grandchild, and more often than not, we are their favorites. take care of her, my friend. but when she leaves, it is good to be appreciative of her presence as well. no, i am not wishing that she leaves now, but hope that you are emotionally prepared when she finally meets our Creator.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
1 Apr 17
@ridingbet He was really so young to die. He got an open-heart surgery and he never woke up after. Some of his friends followed him to heaven.lol I am sure he will not be lonely. They are having a drinking session in heaven. lol
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
1 Apr 17
@Shavkat hahaha! so, your father had angioplasty? or maybe he had some blockage in his heart that required the open-heart surgery? i presume the surgery was not successful because he never woke up? oh, so now, your father and his friends are having drinking session again? i hope St. Peter won't join the table so he won't be intoxicated to point who should go where.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
1 Apr 17
@Shavkat at 65? that is too young to leave the world, my friend. i know too that your father is enjoying his eternal life in heaven and who knows, maybe they are friends with my parents up there?!
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@OreoBrownie (3755)
• Commerce, Georgia
31 Mar 17
Bless her heart. Sound like she was making peace with everyone.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
1 Apr 17
I guess she is. But I think she was just anxious with her age and wanted to let her family knows how much she care.