I Do Not Like Walking On Egg Shells

Mojave, California
May 1, 2017 7:48pm CST
I am normally very quiet and for good reason. I get the way I think just does not match much of society. That being said, people always trying to get me to say more. I am always telling them be careful what you wish for because most likely you will not like what you find. I have come to the conclusion I have a I love you or hate you personality. I am alright with that. Sometimes that makes it hard with family though. They know you and what not. Still find it hard they lose trust in you at times like you are going to do something silly or stupid. Might be nice if you explained in a better way or just communicated in a better way period. We all see things differently. Then they get mad at me for being me. Tends to make me walk on egg shells so I do not piss anyone off. I might as well join a religious cult if people continue to try to contain me in such a way it is not productive for anyone. It all adds up. Sometimes I wonder if it is their surroundings that is making them walk on egg shells and now they are forcing that on me. Moral of the story, let people be people and get we all have to walk on egg shells, but lets keep it to a minimum.
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• United States
2 May 17
I can relate to that Crossbones. Why do people keep bothering other people period? Let people be, just be and live!!! Stand for what you believe. Keep good in yourself and as far as we can possibly do, be on good terms with all but NO SURRENDER right. People can be vexing and irritate the spirit. It is good to be yourself and not have to fake it.
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@Kandae11 (53769)
2 May 17
I hate having to walk on egg shells around certain people. It stifles the natural me.
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• Mojave, California
2 May 17
Indeed, a shame too because that is usually people's best qualities about them.
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@LadyDuck (460333)
• Switzerland
2 May 17
I think that it's better to have less friends, but to be ourselves than to try to please everybody. Anyway you will always find someone who pushes you to the limit and then you lose your temper and your patience.
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• Mojave, California
6 May 17
Indeed and pretty much the conclusion I have come to.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
2 May 17
I hardly walk on egg shells. I am very honest
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• Mojave, California
2 May 17
See, I could get along with you.
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• Mojave, California
2 May 17
@Courtlynn Only probably 90 percent of the time. I mean you are female and My closest friends still disagree with me 60 percent of the time. I would not have it any other any. Welcome to the club homie. Of course, who wants to join this sinking ship.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
2 May 17
@crossbones27 i mean, yeah probably. Unless you didnt like what i had to say lol
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
2 May 17
everyones individual experiences is what makes us all different from one another, its what gives us our individuality. the mistake they make with you is that they are not really accepting you for who you are, but rather would prefer that you be someone they want.
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• Mojave, California
6 May 17
That is what I always thought, the thing I need to learn is how to state that in a way they are not going to kill me. I am not a good off the top of my head thinker and it gives me problems with combative people, but that is great advice you offered. Thanks.
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@breine (97)
5 May 17
It can be annoying but it helps when you wanna avoid any conflict driven individuals.
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• Mojave, California
6 May 17
True, but not the way I would want to live my life. Might just need to say we see life differently so you could to do your own thing.
@jstory07 (135042)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 May 17
I think all of us should mind our own business and not brother others. That is what I try to do.
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• Mojave, California
6 May 17
Indeed, but other people lives are more exciting at least that is what I have been told.
@teamfreak16 (43419)
• Denver, Colorado
2 May 17
Hell, it's gotten so bad that I have to walk on eggshells when I'm around myself!
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• Mojave, California
2 May 17
Indeed and know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I ask myself. Am I Hitler. Am I HITLER? People do funny things to you that is for sure.
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2 May 17
I was like this for the longest time but over time I learned to not care what others thought of me.
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• Mojave, California
2 May 17
I am like that with most, just different when it is family or actually living with people. Kind of have to learn to get along or enjoy living in the street.
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