Waiting Your Son To Come Home Late At Night Is So Nervous

@ilocosboy (34391)
Philippines
May 25, 2017 7:50pm CST
Aj, 17 years old came home late at night. He come home maybe at 3:30 in the morning. When I called him at 2am he said he was at the beach. I told him to come home and he said yes to me. I didn't sleep well waiting for him. He didn't tell us when he went to nearby beach. Sometimes I called him but didn't answer. It's haed to handle teenagers. Now I realized how my mother felt when I'm in his age.
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@Elisa1234 (7653)
• Philippines
26 May
Father and Son Sad to say, I don't have a biological father anymore . (teary eyes) You may not carry him now in your arms but you will always carry him in your heart.
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
Wow nice words. When he was still a child I carry him overnight when his asthma strike. Now he's grown and hard to control
@Elisa1234 (7653)
• Philippines
26 May
@ilocosboy yeah, hard to control, for we just want to be free ,
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
@Elisa1234 but of course, sometimes, they have to be considerate about the feelings of their parents.
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@Happy2BeMe (70886)
• Canada
26 May
I never realized what my parents went through until I had teenagers of my own. You will have many sleepless nights and lots of worried when they are out with friends. Those were for me some of the most difficult times when raising children.
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
That's true, I cannot sleep and when I call him he didn't immediately respond to my call.
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@Happy2BeMe (70886)
• Canada
26 May
@ilocosboy They will do that too. They just don't understand how worried we are about them.
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
@Happy2BeMe they are too adventurous and really wanted to do whatever they wanted to do. If only they can feel how scared their parents are.
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@hereandthere (25937)
• Philippines
26 May
my niece is older and does that a lot. she already knows the night before or the morning when she says goodbye that she won't be coming home, but she will only text us about it when it's already 10pm. grrr!
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
It would have been harder when AJ is female. Still its sleepless night for me.
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@Slayqueen (946)
• India
26 May
Maybe that's why my mother doesn't allow me to go out at night.. with my friends..
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
He didn't ask permission from and if I didn't call him, I will not know his whereabouts
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• India
26 May
@ilocosboy I guess you're mad at him for not asking permission..
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
@Slayqueen I was mad at him especially when he didn't answer my call. But when I talked to him and know that he's okay, I was so thankful that I forgot about my madness to him.
@allen0187 (28997)
• Philippines
27 May
Have a serious talk with your son. I'm sure he will understand and refrain from doing it again.
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
27 May
Yes buddy, that's what I did. I told him the bad effect of roaming around late at night. I think I'm a better adviser to him than my wife.
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@allen0187 (28997)
• Philippines
27 May
@ilocosboy why did you say that?
@diosabella (4842)
26 May
Are you paying now to all the late nights you made your mom waited for you? Just kidding.
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
Seems like that, I'm guilty. Now i can relate to my mother's feeling
27 May
@ilocosboy When I had my phone, the very first one. Another silent agreement, when coming home late call at home so every one will know where I am and why I am running late. Sometimes back then I think mobile phone makes my life complicated.
@Sreekala (19185)
• India
26 May
I don't know why boys are like this. They are so irresponsible at times and do not pick the calls.
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
really hard to understand, nervous is killing me.
@prashu228 (24923)
• India
26 May
I see all this, when my maternal uncle is worried about his son, they don't sleep till his son comes home..
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@ilocosboy (34391)
• Philippines
26 May
Its really hard, I want to spanked him but later on i was just so thankful to hear his okay