Get Rid Of Toxic People To Live A Healthy Life

Gurgaon, India
June 9, 2017 10:41pm CST
Anything toxic is very harmful to us, so we follow to clean up toxic things from our body, water, food etc. But what about toxic people? There are kind of personalities who just don't live peacefully and don't let others live with peace and happiness. These people think negative, talk negative and imagine the worst in every condition, can play mind games, emotional blackmailing, can make us feel bad if we react on their bad behaviour. They are more poisonous then any other poison. It is very necessary to get rid of them or at least keep distance otherwise life can become hell. What do you think about it?
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@vandana3 (234)
10 Jun 17
It's easy to say but if toxic people are your very near ones it becomes hard to remove them.
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
I agree that if they are very near ones, we can't get rid of them but we can try to not take their drama and negativity too seriously and keep distance as much as possible.
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@vandana3 (234)
10 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain this is the least we can do about this.
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@vandana3 (234)
10 Jun 17
@HAPPSINGH thanx DEVIL ji
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jun 17
You are right that those who spit venom on us should be kept at arm's length. However, if the person happens to be very near relative of ours, we just can't avoid him or her. In this case best course of action would be to not to react to ill motives of the venomous person. We need to keep our calm and patience to thwart his/her moves.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain They are basically manipulative people and they know how to play with your emotions, they know how to hit you below belt.
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• Gurgaon, India
11 Jun 17
Yes if they are very close relative, we can't live it so it's best to avoid their negative poisonous behaviour and try not to get affected much by them. If you have encountered them, then you know that they are sick and play mind games too it is very difficult to understand the real situation most of the time because they behave like victim and behave in the manner like it's others who are doing wrong.
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• Gurgaon, India
19 Jun 17
@dpk262006 yes, so it's better to be away from them or at least try not to get trapped in their game.
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• India
10 Jun 17
@Bodyandmind yes there are such type of people who will not live good and let others live. We have to be careful with those peoples.
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• India
10 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain yes, if possible help people that is what I believe and i incurred loss because of these type of people but they forgot one thing I lost money but they lost a good friendship.
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
Yes we should be careful with those people and if possible get out of their lives.
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
@sunilparthan absolutely, but the sad thing is that these people don't have healthy minds so it is possible that they will never realise what they lost.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
12 Jun 17
We find such people in every sphere of life, whether friends, or at work, relatives, family , neighbors etc. Sometimes you cant get rid of them even if try to avoid or ignore these people. One needs a strong mind and sense of countering them back to work around with such people in case you cant get rid of them.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
12 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain Sometimes we need to be little toxic to deal with toxic people. What do you think?
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• Gurgaon, India
13 Jun 17
@avi256 sorry my friend I don't agree with this idea.
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• Gurgaon, India
12 Jun 17
Yes they can be found anywhere and it's worse if we have them close by. I agree with you that sometimes getting rid of them or avoid them is not possible, in this condition we need very strong will power and content mind to handle the situation and don't get trapped in their aura. It can be very challenging to keep our mind in healthy state.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Jul 17
I agree with you . Toxic people are best avoided.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Jul 17
@Bodyandbrain I absolutely understand it but it's hard to do.
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• Gurgaon, India
5 Jul 17
@RubyHawk I know and have experienced how hard it is.
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• Gurgaon, India
4 Jul 17
Thanks for understanding my point of view.
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
10 Jun 17
You are describing my boss and after spending 3 years working under his management I am now off work sick (mental health)... It wasnt a healthy time for me or any of my friends at all...
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
I can understand. Actually these kind of people are mentally sick and they play their game in such a manner that they can disturb others mental health too.
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
10 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain yes, I agree with you... Do you meet alot of people like this in your life?
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
@atoz1to10 yes unfortunately I have met many people like this but thank God that I could handle them and the situations created by them.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
10 Jun 17
At my previous job I had a colleague who was like that. She was always so depressed and talked about negative things. She was always complaining and never happy about anything. At a certain point this negative attitude of hers started to make me feel miserable. I started feeling demotivated. I then decided to keep my distance from her and to have only work related talks with her.
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• Gurgaon, India
12 Jun 17
This is the trait of toxic people that they create a negative aura around them which effect everyone close by. You were smart enough to realise the situation and took the right decision. Their is no other way as they never change, sometimes they don't even realise how toxic they are.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
12 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain in fact the news that i got from my friends at my previous work is that she is still the same. So negative. Yes the day i stopped talking to her i felt free
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• Gurgaon, India
13 Jun 17
@Nawsheen I know these people never change. It was good for you that you maintained a distance.
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
10 Jun 17
You are right @Bodyandbrain We should all keep these people away from us.
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
Toxic people create a negative aura around them and the victim suffers like hell.
@shaynas (5488)
• India
6 Jul 17
very true. But we often meet many such people in lives, and can't cut them off completely! we should learn the art of what to take and what not to take from others :)
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• Gurgaon, India
6 Jul 17
Yes we all meet these kinds of people and I agree that we can't cut off them completely and not everyone master the art of dealing with them. If one is not careful it can challenge his mental and physical health.
@shaynas (5488)
• India
7 Jul 17
@Bodyandbrain True. Some people are so negative that they infect your thoughts too. Beware of such people!
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• Gurgaon, India
7 Jul 17
@shaynas you are right.
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@reskyyandi (3616)
• Indonesia
12 Jun 17
Yeah, you are right. We have to stay away from toxic people so we don't get infected with their negative thing
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• Gurgaon, India
12 Jun 17
Stay away and avoiding their negativity is the only way to deal with them because they never change themselves.
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
18 Jun 17
Very very true! Loved the Title...
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• Gurgaon, India
19 Jun 17
@ShifaLk good evening dear, how are you?
• Gurgaon, India
18 Jun 17
Thanks dear. It needs courage, presence of mind, and ability to understand the situation clearly to take the bold decision of getting rid of them.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
19 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain yes exactly... :) Thanks
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@manikarnika (3222)
• India
10 Jun 17
Yeah...No human beings is toxic only venomous snake is toxic.
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• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
@manikarnika I understand now, agree with you.
• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
Some human are more toxic than snakes. May be you are lucky enough to not encountered them till now.
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• India
10 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain yeah...really Snake has venom.Human beings don't have venom...Lol ( l hope you understand now )
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