Misunderstanding

India
June 13, 2017 11:44pm CST
Yesterday I was chatting with my friend who is now very far away from me..long time back we used to chat through Facebook at those times we talk in a very formal manner..but it was nice even though it was formal..after that we became very close and we started chatting through WhatsApp..and those chats were casual but there was something missing in her words..and yesterday I was just reading the old Facebook chats and realised that some things have changed ..i don't know whether it was me or she..so that I asked her..and that was my terrible mistake..and now she is like mad at me..I think I really have a bad mouth..may be I shouldn't have asked her..I don't know how she understood my words...and I feel very bad for asking her..
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@Shavkat (42484)
• Philippines
14 Jun
Sometimes It is better to think twice before saying something. It might offend others. I hope she is not having a magic day.
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• India
14 Jun
A magic day..???
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@Shavkat (42484)
• Philippines
14 Jun
@Kuttu_007 The monthly period, my friend. If they have it, we expect that they have the random mood swing.
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@mandala100 (17664)
• Hong Kong
14 Jun
What's the particular words you told her that could or might possibly annoyed her?
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• India
14 Jun
I just asked..have I Changed?..or you?
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@jstory07 (57375)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jun
@Kuttu_007 That should not annoy her.
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• India
14 Jun
@jstory07 but then she asked me what made me think like that..I said our past chats made me think like that... and she asked which one do you like..I said I dont know I like the original i don't know which one it is..and probably that could have made her annoying..
@toniganzon (35592)
• Philippines
14 Jun
It's really difficult to maintain friendship online because everything could be misunderstood. I hope you'll be able to patch things up with her.
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• India
14 Jun
Yeah..thats true..but I know her right from my childhood..we studied in the same school..but now different college..
@toniganzon (35592)
• Philippines
14 Jun
@Kuttu_007 When people grow up they change. Not their attitude or personality, but their priorities.
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• India
14 Jun
@toniganzon yeah.. and that explains..
@luispas (1780)
• Venezuela
14 Jun
What was that thing that you asked her? Why is she so mad? Think better what you said, tell her that you're sorry and it wasn't your intention. It's a real shame that you have to live this issue, and I hope you can solve this.
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• India
14 Jun
Yeah..now we are okay...a little
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@luispas (1780)
• Venezuela
14 Jun
@Kuttu_007 Well, keep trying
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@gilggg (2325)
• Israel
14 Jun
If you hurt her without intending to, ask her forgiveness. If you still like her show her your affection, And so I'm sure things worked out for the best
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• India
14 Jun
I hope it works..
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@gilggg (2325)
• Israel
14 Jun
@Kuttu_007 I'm sure it will..
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@prashu228 (16290)
• India
14 Jun
People change as time goes. Hope you are fine now
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• India
14 Jun
Yeah..better now
@Sreekala (18197)
• India
14 Jun
People change very fast and according to their situations. Naturally their preference, taste etc get changed. It is very common. I understood your curiosity and asked it. Maybe something changed in her side. Be calm and have your patience.
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• India
14 Jun
Hmm.. so true
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@ilocosboy (22340)
• Philippines
14 Jun
Yeah that's how we iron out misunderstandings with each other.
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@vsai2008 (5946)
• India
14 Jun
I think it will be okay in a few days time:) Good day :)
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