Suggestions

@PBKING (1490)
India
June 14, 2017 8:19am CST
I like to give suggestions to my friends or parents if i know better about anything but sometimes they got angry even if my suggestion is good. Is that good to give suggestions to people who are younger or older than us?
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@MALUSE (30015)
• Denmark
14 Jun
Some people don't want to hear other people's advice if they haven't asked for it. They prefer making their own experiences including their own mistakes. So leave them alone.
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
Yeah i can leave them alone but i think it's their loss if they don't want to follow good advise.
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@saiama (582)
• Mumbai, India
14 Jun
@PBKING they are responsible for their own acts not you so u can help thm to certain limit not more than that
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
@saiama yes i also think the same
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@saiama (582)
• Mumbai, India
14 Jun
i think its absolutely cool and good practice to share your knowledge in form of advice to ppl younger or older than you, not all r perfect and if someone benefits from ur knwledge then y not its upto them to take advice n use it for their good or always stay in ignorance
@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
Yeah you are absolutely right but sometimes i don't want to give advise due to some of my experiences that people get angry due to my advise. What do you think? Should i leave them alone or continue to give better advise?
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@saiama (582)
• Mumbai, India
14 Jun
@PBKING i think you shd consider urself first wether you r givin advice if someone asked you to give or giving free advice .nif ur giving free advise then chances are ppl might not like it and avoid ur opinion even if it is right , so the trick is in convincing ppl wd ur talk that u can give a good advice and it wd benenfit them more if they listen to u rest is up to them to choose or nt to act on ur advice
@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
@saiama agree with you
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@shivamani10 (9366)
• Hyderabad, India
14 Jun
I always suggest others if they ask for it. Otherwise, I keep on my business. Why should I suggest and trouble them?
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
Yes you are right but sometimes we need to give our good suggestion to our relatives or close friends to solve their problmes even if they don't want it.
@MALUSE (30015)
• Denmark
14 Jun
@PBKING Why do you think that you 'need' to give your suggestions to others? And who says that they're good for them? What may seem good for you, may indeed be bad for them. According to your account page, you're only 22 years old. Is it possible that you suffer from megalomania?
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
@MALUSE megalomania? Can you give short info about it?
@ShifaLk (7313)
• India
17 Jun
Oh yes we can give suggestions to elders too... but always remember that we are Indians lol
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
17 Jun
Yeah, you are right but can you relate indians and suggestions?
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@ShifaLk (7313)
• India
19 Jun
@PBKING oh yes LOL but you know we get free advices in India hahaha
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
20 Jun
@ShifaLk haha that's absolutely true Here are many people who think they are talented, even if they are not
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@Shavkat (43668)
• Philippines
14 Jun
I think some traditional old folks, they don't accept any suggestions from the young ones.It is a good thing that my old folks are open to any suggestions.
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@PBKING (1490)
• India
14 Jun
Yeah it's good for you. I think they accepted the change as it is and wants to know the new generation thoughts
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@Shavkat (43668)
• Philippines
19 Jun
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@Nawsheen (22849)
• Mauritius
14 Jun
Sometimes people don't like when you suggest something to them (this is because of their ego). They prefer to do things their own way even if they are wrong.