How Would You Feel?
By celticeagle
@celticeagle (159058)
Boise, Idaho
June 21, 2017 3:38pm CST
I once had an online, short lived relationship with this certain guy. We had more fun for awhile. But, it came to crashing end after a few months. My friend started taking up with him. Messaging, befriending,etc. I'm not sure who pursued who.
My question is this: Do you think that a good girlfriend should take up with a guy that she knew you had feelings for? If the friend knew it could potentially hurt you and/or cause hurt feelings or other problems? How would you feel about this?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Jun 17
I think it was not fair on your part to befriend the guy, for whom you had feeling for.
Was it you who told your friend about the guy?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Aug 17
@celticeagle Your friend probably took advantage of the information/details provided by you. May be she wanted to try whether she could succeed in befriending the guy. 
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Aug 17
@dpk262006 ......I don't know what her reasoning was. I sure don't trust her.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Aug 17
Initially and how I felt about him.
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@CookieMonster46 (13447)
• United States
1 Aug 17
I wouldn't do that to a friend, no matter how well we hit it off. If a man is done with you , I have seen many times they will go for a friend of yours, because they seen them a lot and know them, But I am not comfortable with it.
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
22 Jun 17
hurt of course, and not sure how good a friend the girlfriend was, or how much I trusted the guy anymore
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@CaseyRoss9966 (4056)
• United States
21 Jun 17
No. A good and real friend wouldn't date someone you use to date or had feelings for. I would be mad if they did it immediately after we broke up and then started dating because sometimes that happens and usually means they were talking/messing with the person before you broke up. If it was like 10 or 20 years down the road and they started dating then I wouldn't care because it was 10 years ago and who cares past that point.
My biggest thing is if they do that crap while you are still together. I don't really care as much if it has been awhile since we broke up and they did it. I probably wouldn't be that close to either person for it to bother me and if it was a close friend they wouldn't do it anyway if they were a decent person.
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Jun 17
Thank you. I appreciate your view on this.
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