THE WAY TO A MAN'S HEART?
June 24, 2017 8:23am CST
How important in a relationship is the woman's ability to prepare delicious meals? They say that - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach - Is that really true? especially in these modern times? If a man had to choose between two women for marriage - one can cook and the other is a disaster in the kitchen , who do you think will be his choice? Do you think being able to cook well will keep a husband happy? And men, what do you look for in a woman ?
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• Portland, Connecticut
Well all I can say is my both sons married women who barely cook and my son in law married my daughter who doesn't cook much either. All of these men are very good cooks themselves. My hubs on the other hand, doesn't cook much so he wanted a woman who could, Me lol but I think at the end of the day, chemistry between two people wins.
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• Green Bay, Wisconsin
It's always interesting what draws a man to a woman, but in many cases, not all, it's the ability to cook. I'm a good cook. Though I can say it wasn't my cooking that brought my late X and me together. It was what we had in common.
@LadyDuck My mother was the one cooking, then my parents got separated, my father learned to cook and later my parents got back together. My father is the one cooking now, my mother became tired of cooking. It must be in the DNA of most people, after a while they become lazy for some reason.
All I know is that on our first date my now husband made me dinner and I think that is what stole my heart. We have always shared the cooking even though I think he prefers my cooking. And I do all the baking. I have several relatives male, who are married to women who can't cook and they seem happy.
• United States
Well we were discussing a movie at work.. i don't remember which one ,but it came up if a woman cooks would it be enough to get him..The men said she has to be good to look at and other thing... cooking was the last thing they cared about.
I don't think being a good cook is the thing that matters. I agree that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach- but, I guess this can be applicable to men who are good in cooking, or else, how can he say that the prepared/cooked food are tasty
I know some men who likes it when their wives prepare food for them. But however if a wife is a good cook this does not really mean that she will be able to keep her husband happy. There are many other things which are important in a relationship too.
My current boyfriend loves good food. I'm not bad at cooking, I simply never really tried. Men sometimes miss their moms or like to be cuddled with food, especially the Italian men. As a woman, a good cook as husband would be great, but I'm not too picky either, as long as I don't starve. There are restaurants willing to serve food anyway, my future husband can go there and stop whining!