Can you be a little more humble?
By Luis Medina
@luispas (1674)
Venezuela
June 26, 2017 3:17pm CST
For the first time I was thinking too much about posting anything here, it was a little difficult for me, but I said: fu** it I always post what I want and I won't let anyone pull me down that easy.
I've always been loyal to myself and who I am, what I believe and the things I feel.
Sometimes we just need to ignore a couple of toxic things and just play attention on what really matters.
This is a little story.
A friend of a friend of mine came to the town this weekend. My friends here are 4, this new guy gave us presents to us and that was really nice, I received chocolates 
Okay, but then he starts like flirting at me (when we were alone), and I was like: Hey I need my space. It's not that I'm homophobic or something, that would be ironic, anyways, I hate when people thinks that can be so "nice" with me that easy, on those situations I tend to avoid them as much as I can.
Well, this guy was so fake, he overacted everything and he only wanted to have attention. I hate when people believe that they are the most important thing in the world (arrogant), we need to put out feet on the ground, please. The thing I did was put him aside and respond normal to his comments, completely, at the point that he starts to notice it and got mad.
We spend the hole afternoon and night together (my 4 friends, he and I) and the leave. At the next day I didn't even went to say good bye to him 
Please be careful with you attitude and don't be so confident.
Sorry for the chocolates bro 
Okay, but then he starts like flirting at me (when we were alone), and I was like: Hey I need my space. It's not that I'm homophobic or something, that would be ironic, anyways, I hate when people thinks that can be so "nice" with me that easy, on those situations I tend to avoid them as much as I can.
Well, this guy was so fake, he overacted everything and he only wanted to have attention. I hate when people believe that they are the most important thing in the world (arrogant), we need to put out feet on the ground, please. The thing I did was put him aside and respond normal to his comments, completely, at the point that he starts to notice it and got mad.
We spend the hole afternoon and night together (my 4 friends, he and I) and the leave. At the next day I didn't even went to say good bye to him
Please be careful with you attitude and don't be so confident.
Sorry for the chocolates bro 7 people like this
6 responses
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
27 Jun 17
These are really the type of people I really do not care for, and there are many of these I have run into over the course of my life both online and offline. People that really are just in it is seems for themselves. If they really cannot take No for an answer, or just quit acting so self righteous sometimes the world would be so much better.
2 people like this
@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
27 Jun 17
I totally agree, they would never understand it, they refuse to be denied. I think that I ignore them in purpose
@sabtraversa (13004)
• Italy
26 Jun 17
There's a deep psychological problem with some of these attention seekers, sociopaths and psychopaths?
We can't do much except trying to avoid them, but hey, that's the price of chocolates. 
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
29 Jun 17
I have had great friends a couple of them did not turn out to be what I thought and we became what you call fair weather friends.
I have not seen them for ages but I still think a lot of them but now don´t feel the need to see them.
There are millions of people out there who can be a good friend to you.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
29 Jun 17
@luispas
You will find friends of course you will.
I am sure of it too.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
29 Jun 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 Thank you so much 
I have faith.
I have faith.1 person likes this
@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
29 Jun 17
I totally understand you and before, I thought that was a shame, but now I realize that it doesn't, if someone leaves, a better person will come to our lives, so don't worry. I'm sure that you have a lot of good friends.
And thank you so much I have hope.
I have hope.
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Well at least you got chocolates from your intense suffering with this dude.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
26 Jun 17
There's nothing wrong with being over-confident. You couldve dealt with it better maybe.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
27 Jun 17
@luispas still think you couldve. Doesnt mean he couldnt have been a little less. But over confident isn't bad.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
27 Jun 17
@Courtlynn Maybe, maybe. I know it's not too bad, but there's a limit, I don't think that you're understanding, he wanted to kiss me that's way too confident for me.
that's way too confident for me.
