Would You Give Yours Away?

Anna

@LadyDuck (458994)

• Switzerland

1 Sep 17

@cacay1 I know that I will do if this was the way to save his life.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

1 Sep 17

@LadyDuck, you are such a very loving, kind, caring and thoughtful wife my friend. You'll surely do it for your husband loves you so much too, no doubt of giving a part of the body.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

Yes indeed, it would be your choice to make.

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vanny

@vandana7 (98944)

• India

6 Jul 17

Yes. But that is so rotten on the part of comedian / actor. So rotten...

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

Ironically In my post "The Proposal" @hopefulman and myself were discussing whether it was a good thing for a woman to ask a man to marry her. And I did say that it wasn't such a good idea, because if anything went wrong, he could always say -" you asked me - not I". In the case of the comedian, I think she was the one who proposed.

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vanny

@vandana7 (98944)

• India

6 Jul 17

@Kandae11 .. Ah it hardly matters who asks whom. If tables were turned, it would be she who would be saying the same thing. lol. What matters is caring. She cared, he did not. If he knew what his feelings for her were, he should have disclosed them..saying I love you and care for you...but not as much as you love and care for me. She would know where she stands, and then it would be her decision whether she went ahead and did that.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

@vandana7 Good point.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (137220)

• Philippines

6 Jul 17

I think I will do it. My weakness is my family and I don't want them to suffer. It is better to donate one of my kidneys.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (137220)

• Philippines

7 Jul 17

@Kandae11 That would be nice.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

1 Sep 17

@Shavkat,if that is the only chance for our love to survive, why not give, right? How nice of you, my friend.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

If I am a match, I would donate mine.

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Oshy

@TiarasOceanView (70035)

• United States

6 Jul 17

At one time yes I would have. At this point, no.

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Oshy

@TiarasOceanView (70035)

• United States

1 Sep 17

@cacay1

@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

1 Sep 17

@TiarasOceanView , yes friend, I know, you won't

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

Yes, you would know what you can and cannot do.

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Belle Starr (Iz)

@BelleStarr (61047)

• United States

6 Jul 17

I would not hesitate to give one to those that I love.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

1 Sep 17

@BelleStarr oh, what a love!

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

I won't hesitate either.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247191)

• United States

6 Jul 17

Without a doubt, I'd give one to my husband or any other family member. That husband of hers will get his karma one day.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

1 Sep 17

@DianneN , I am so sure 100% for the two of you are more than friends, more than lovers and more than husband and wife.Your love is so great, both of you!

@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

I am sure he will.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (130089)

• India

6 Jul 17

If I were the only source and there was no other I would

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Always smiling

@allknowing (130089)

• India

7 Jul 17

@Kandae11 Happy that you noticed (lol)

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

Good thinking.

By the way, I miss the smiling face.

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

7 Jul 17

Oh, that was so sad indeed. You gave your spouse your other kidney yet he divorced you after some years after that. If I were the spouse, I would ask back for the kidney.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

Too late. Let us hope that his new wife is willing to help out if ever he is in need again.

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

8 Jul 17

@Kandae11 Of course it is too late.

Sabrina Traversa

@sabtraversa (13004)

• Italy

6 Jul 17

If I could, I would. Whatever my heart tells me to do.

I wouldn't regret if we ended in divorce, I expect my good action to pay in future.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

Yes, if it ended it would be n his conscience - not yours,.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (40611)

• United States

6 Jul 17

I wouldn't hesitate to give a kidney to any of my kids or husband and I believe they would do the same for me.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

I am sure they would.

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Joanie

@Freelanzer (10744)

• Canada

6 Jul 17

I would and I am sure that comedian's wife thought he was in love with her after being together for 17 years but he still took the kidney and left. Not sure why. It is difficult to know for sure.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

That's it - we can never be really sure of anyone.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (307027)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

7 Jul 17

Compatibility for kidney transplants is hard to match, so if I were a match for someone who needed one, I wouldn't hesitate regardless of who they are.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (307027)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

8 Jul 17

@Kandae11 Yes it is.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

That is also problematic - finding the right match.

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Tom Lucas

@Luke35 (81)

• United States

6 Jul 17

I wouldn't necessarily do it for a stranger, but would absolutely do it for a family member. And as for the 'divorce' question; I have no fear that my wife and I are together forever, but even if there was a chance otherwise, the chance of divorce in 3 years wouldn't dissuade me from giving her a kidney today.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

Well said.

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ARM

@responsiveme (22926)

• India

7 Jul 17

Tough question....But yes.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

Good.

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Bojel

@jobelbojel (34730)

• Philippines

7 Jul 17

If there is no problem with my health and organ and if it is okay for me to give, I will do it for my family.

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

Good. And I am sure they would do the same for you if you were in need.

Jellybelly

@CookieMonster46 (13447)

• United States

6 Jul 17

probably not because one of my kidneys is bad already.. if i give away the good one I will be in trouble.

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Jellybelly

@CookieMonster46 (13447)

• United States

6 Jul 17

@Kandae11 that is true

@Kandae11 (53677)

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6 Jul 17

No - there are cases where as they say - "the heart is willing but the flesh is weak".

Claudia Kirkland

@CRK109 (14558)

• United States

7 Jul 17

I definitely would. My mother lived most of her life with only one kidney, after a serious illness. She lived to be 93 with only one, so that showed me that I could easily give one away and still live a full life. And saving the life of someone I love would mean so much to me!

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

Yes, the sacrifice would be worth it, especially when the love is shared.

Angie

@andriaperry (116860)

• Anniston, Alabama

7 Jul 17

Yes I would. But I would make him sign papers stating if he left he has to leave my kidney

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@Kandae11 (53677)

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7 Jul 17

I doubt he would leave after signing.

Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (129531)

• Israel

17 Apr 18

@Kandae11 I think it is a shame after what she did for him that he divorced her. I would have to make sure that the person is worth it before I would give my kidney away and also if it is good to donate to someone.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (129531)

• Israel

17 Apr 18

@Kandae11 I believe she did. It is very sad what he did to her.

@Kandae11 (53677)

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17 Apr 18

He was her husband - so she probably felt her action would bind him closer to her.

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Darcy Nemo

@YrNemo (20261)

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7 Jul 17

Not a nice story isn't it! Women in love are always like that unfortunately. (Unless she begged him to get lost after that successful operation? Nah, if she knew that the guy was such an AH, she wouldn't have given him anything for sure!)

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