In love, out of luck...

United States
July 11, 2017 3:04pm CST
Have you ever been in love with someone you know you can't be with? Having a connection so deep, that you both are very aware of and verbal about, that you can't even fathom not having their energy in life? Both parties know that if we ever became a couple it would hurt us more than help us, I don't want to hate him and he doesn't want to hurt me or lose me. Its like we are in a place of love that can not be. Its self sacrifice and self preservation at the same time. Does anyone else have this connection with a special person in (or out) of their life?
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@jstory07 (135277)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jul 17
No I do not and glad I do not.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
13 Jul 17
@Fenyolicious This love is more of painful enjoyment.
• United States
14 Jul 17
@avi256 Sounds about right.
@Essjayd (1568)
11 Jul 17
Yes but I eventually ended up with him!
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• United States
12 Jul 17
@Essjayd LUCKY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
12 Jul 17
I had but it ended and we are in a much better place now.
@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
13 Jul 17
Your thoughts are pretty deep here and kind of emotional turmoil and I can understand what you are trying to say.
@Prshnth (907)
• Bangalore, India
12 Jul 17
yeah in that case try to be only friend to him/her...friendship is always best if you are confused
@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
12 Jul 17
I believe I had been in love before but then I don't think I loved any one that much... Maybe I didn't have a chance to let myself really fall in love with anyone..
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
12 Jul 17
@Fenyolicious I think I did. I'm married you see... But then I think i still try to protect myself from getting more hurt so the less I show love the better...
• United States
12 Jul 17
@ato1to10 TT- I totally get that. Love in itself is a scary flight and if you don't let yourself open up to the most powerful love you can imagine than it can't be forced either. I Do hope you feel this emotional magic oneday though.
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@Shavkat (137305)
• Philippines
12 Jul 17
I did but I suppressed the feeling. Since it will not work.