One habit
@spaceseed (2843)
India
July 16, 2017 5:18am CST
This discussion is different from my other discussions, I really hate one bad habit of my wife which is keeping lights switched on. And I have asked, requested, pleaded before her to stop torching me this way but it looks she give it a damn to what I feel.
I like natural light at day time, and usually sits with window of my room open. but as she comes, even for just two seconds........first thing she does is switching on the lights.......... thats ok for me if she is there she can do it. but while leaving the room she is supposed to turn off the artificial light.. as I do not like it. but she always keep them on and leave it.
it happens again and again.. and feel really bad about it.
Though this kind of asking is slightly negative............but does your partner has any such habit which you would like to change As soon as possible.
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@blitzfrick (2890)
• United States
17 Jul 17
No partners here anymore and life is good. It's my way All The Time. 
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@blitzfrick (2890)
• United States
18 Jul 17
@spaceseed I've learned to relish my solitude! It's worth more to me than whatever the price is to have it.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
17 Jul 17
great, you are on your own. lucky you are .........In one sense
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
17 Jul 17
I think you are not married @Miria44 . to make mother father and sibling understand is very easy. but spouses are different case as they come from (I know everything, and I do everything correct) planet
Lol
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@Miria44 (100)
•
17 Jul 17
@spaceseed correct and correct but I had to share something that I atleast know and trying is not failing in this case it's caring for this post and chipping in.
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
16 Jul 17
I understand this problem. It surely irritates me to boiling point and it makes me resent that person here also...same thing..I have to keep bills down too..but no, they have to have it their way. Sorry this happens to you friend.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
17 Jul 17
@spaceseed Yes and also I despise loud bad temper in the mornings or any time here.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
17 Jul 17
These habits are such,which has to be developed by one own.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
17 Jul 17
After almost 50 years, I have noticed many annoying habits of my husband but since as they say, you can't teach an old dog new tricks, I just accept them and learn to live with them lol
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
18 Jul 17
you are sokind, your husband is so lucky to have you
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@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
18 Jul 17
Have you spoken to her about it and let her know it bothers you?
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
18 Jul 17
in this case some one else is not affected so you are good
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hmm so I am not in rare case scenario
@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
16 Jul 17
You should tell her nicely with a lot of patience. During my college days I was...sorry...we all were in this habit.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
17 Jul 17
Na I dont think she does it deliberately, but she has habit. and this habit is so much deep rooted, she can not get rid of it easily.
My concern is that she must try to get over it. and try to correct it.
