FOREVER LOOKING.
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (53677)
July 18, 2017 8:02am CST
Have you found the man or woman of your dreams yet - your ideal mate? And what qualities are you looking for in that person?
It is a fact that "time waits for no man" or woman for that matter - so as the years roll by, will you keep on waiting for that ideal or settle with whoever is available?. I wonder if those who decide to 'settle' will be satisfied with their life or feel cheated. Even though married, will they be forever still looking?
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23 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
18 Jul 17
I am not looking thankfully.
I am happy alone.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jul 17
Ditto. Once you reach a certain age like me, you just don't care anymore.
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@sabtraversa (13006)
• Italy
18 Jul 17
I have my own high standards, but I fall in love with random people, so I don't really wait for the prince charming. If the relationship goes well for some time, then I can marry. And later ask for divorce.
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@sabtraversa (13006)
• Italy
18 Jul 17
@Kandae11 Life is too short for just waiting.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
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18 Jul 17
@sabtraversa It is . And some women fade faster than men.
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@1creekgirl (40615)
• United States
19 Jul 17
Since there are no perfect people, I think it's foolish to wait for that perfect mate to come along. That doesn't mean to settle for someone you don't like, but if there are qualities about the person you like and find attractive, give him/her a chance.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
19 Jul 17
I found a lady, she wasnt woman of my dreams, but now my dreams are for her..............she is my wife.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
19 Jul 17
@Kandae11 pic is really good...........it lets generate vibrations ;)
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@Kandae11 (53677)
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19 Jul 17
@spaceseed Thanks- Pixabay has every pic I need for my topics.
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@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
18 Jul 17
I stopped looking some thirty years ago even though I may still "look" I, I have no desire to find anyone else since I am happy with what I've got.
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@JESSY3236 (18953)
• United States
18 Jul 17
I'm not looking because I already found someone.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jul 17
I never did thus single my entire life and at an age when I don't care or bother about it.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jul 17
@Kandae11 No, never married.
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@aninditasen (15746)
• Raurkela, India
18 Jul 17
Life is a process of adjustment and changes. You need not keep looking for your perfect partner even after you have one.
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@manandezo (655)
• Petropolis, Brazil
18 Jul 17
For me, there is no ideal person, but characteristics in common and things we would probably agree in life. This will be a first step to know another person. We are all different and what I've seen so far is that many citizens keep waiting or looking for the ideal man/woman, but they don't realize it is almost (but really almost) crazy and difficult to find. Our complex head sets hundreds and hundreds points in our check list for a nice partner in crime, but once people don't check one or two, they give up. Is this also right? To be so demanding, set almost impossible quality standards and be lonely? I am not saying we have to settle with every one that crosses our way, the thing is we should consider observing and learn with the other, even if some topics are not matched. If everyone start looking for Prince(ss) Charming, I wonder what Willem Dafoe would think about it!
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@Marilynda1225 (79961)
• United States
18 Jul 17
Sadly my soul mate passed away many years ago. I've never had the inclination to look for anyone else
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@JudyEv (326127)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Apr 18
I found this on the sidebar. I don't think I was looking for 'perfect' but I've very happy with my husband. I certainly don't want anyone else!!
@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
18 Jul 17
Most people these days settle. Because everybodys either got something wrong with them or has a bad past. Etc. Noones perfect or even close. So we should just be happy if someone loves us and gives us a good feeling, and can keep our interest, even if it doesnt last for years or get to marriage.
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