It isn't so easy if you do not speak a language

@Jackalyn (7559)
Oxford, England
July 20, 2017 5:10am CST
A recent post with a word nobody understood because the person using it was not English reminded me of an incident I had while in Iraq. I never could learn Arabic and in Iraq there are also differences from other Arabic speaking countries.You also have to remember that spoken language and hand movements often go together. I was in a market and wanted to buy knitting needles. I had no idea what the Arabic for knitting needles was and was trying to demonstrate by using my hands to explain the act of knitting. The market trader got very angry indeed and I had, it was later explained to me, just confirmed that I cemented the view common in many Arabic countries that all white people are promiscuous. It seems whatever I did with my hands was in Iraqi Arabic, a proposition for sex..... Let's be patient here on Mylot when the wrong word gets used!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Jul 17
I know which gesture you mean. You didn't have to travel to Iraq to have problems with it. It could happen in Italy, too. Germans hold the needles in a different way and move their fingers differently. So what happened to you couldn't happen to a German knitter. Move forward to the middle of the video.
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@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
20 Jul 17
Memo to self if travelling. Learn how Germans knit!
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Jul 17
@Jackalyn That would save you from awkward situations! :-) But then, why did you want to buy knitting needles in Iraq? That needs an explanation methinks.
@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
21 Jul 17
@MALUSE You just gave me today's subject for a Mylot post!
@shikharava (1838)
20 Jul 17
Yeah, that happens to all. In fact, that has happened to me on many occasions during travels. But I keep on learning and applying. And I make it pretty sure to not let someone raise a few eyebrows just because I used some hand signs that they weren't aware of....
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
20 Jul 17
If it's just a word I think I could be patient but I can't promise that the said discussion won't be deleted.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
24 Jul 17
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
21 Jul 17
Yes, I agree. Here in the Philippines, though we have Filipino as our national language, we have different dialects and is difficult when the dialect is unfamiliar.
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@JudyEv (325809)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Jul 17
Oh goodness, how could you possibly know of your error? I find that quite upsetting.
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@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
21 Jul 17
Well, being a lot younger, I was upset at the time, but now I can laugh
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@JudyEv (325809)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Jul 17
@Jackalyn It happens so easily doesn't it?
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
20 Jul 17
It could really be a problem, but if you have a paper and pen that time, you better draw it so he could understand what you need to buy.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
20 Jul 17
Yes you are right. Even I am not that fluent in English but still I am trying my best. We should respect others and I would like to say that Mylot has helped me improve my written communication skills. You above post made me laugh though
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@LadyDuck (458192)
• Switzerland
20 Jul 17
Sometimes it's hard to understand what those speaking your mother language are telling, imagine another language. Northern Italians have very hard time understanding southern.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Jul 17
Oh lordy, that's a big oops @Jackalyn .
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@Poppylicious (11133)
20 Jul 17
At least the market trader got angry and didn't just invite you round the back to look at his 'knitting needle'!
@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
21 Jul 17
And for that, I am grateful. After all, he was no oil painting.
@franxav (13603)
• India
20 Jul 17
I can guess what your hand movements were like. The only Arabic words that I know are those which are used often in spoken Urdu.
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@dollaboy (6048)
20 Jul 17
Culture Difference
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