distance love

Lagos, Nigeria
July 25, 2017 3:22pm CST
I don't really believe distance love really work. because I believe there are a lot of secret to be hidden between both of them because of the distance.
3 people like this
7 responses
@mandala100 (43265)
• Hong Kong
26 Jul
@depromise It will depend upon your individual commitment to each other my friend: my wife and I has a long distance love/romantic relationship (for 3 long years) she was in the Middle East while I'm in HK and we haven't seen each other for 3 years; we communicate just merely thru letter at that time and by telephone call.
2 people like this
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
wow, that means both of you really understand each other and also trust each other but then it depends on individual. I know about 70% of distance relationship got issues.
1 person likes this
@mandala100 (43265)
• Hong Kong
26 Jul
@depromise It's hard but we finally made it through my freind and that's why we are married for almost 18 years now.
@mandala100 (43265)
• Hong Kong
26 Jul
@depromise it's hard my friend but we made it through and look at us we are married for almost 18 years now. Are you married or single my friend?
@kiran8 (15360)
• Mangalore, India
26 Jul
There are many couple who are away from each other but are able to have a successful relationship. T all depends on the level of commitment !!
1 person likes this
@Shavkat (62423)
• Philippines
26 Jul
@kiran8 I agree. It depends on how the couple is so committed to each other. Distance is not always the hindrance.
1 person likes this
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
@kiran8 that's true but I think most people are scared of d word commitment. there commitment has boundaries.
1 person likes this
@kiran8 (15360)
• Mangalore, India
26 Jul
@Shavkat yes that's very true .
1 person likes this
@Shavkat (62423)
• Philippines
26 Jul
Personally speaking, there are only a few people who can work out a long distance relationship.
1 person likes this
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
@ shavkat that is it. most people might pretend all is well with the relationship but so many things are wrong with it.
@Shavkat (62423)
• Philippines
26 Jul
@depromise I hope it is not being generalized. I think it is still possible to love somebody in a long distance relationship. Communication is the key factor to make it work.
• Lagos, Nigeria
27 Jul
@Shavkat both need to determine to communicate regularly then to keep the relationship alive.
25 Jul
Only the strong and faithful can handle it and no one else.sml
1 person likes this
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
@ pheomenon101 yes dear,the strong and faithful who can handle this are very few
@Courtlynn (66089)
• United States
25 Jul
Every relationship can have secrets. Just as every relationship has bad and good times. Distance doesnt make it worse. People who dont care to be honest and faithful are what make it worse. And those people shouldnt be in relationships. As hurting someone who loves you is not ok
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
@courtlynn that means relationship are meant for mature minds then. in case it happens to be a kind of distance relationship then they can cope. but I know temptations will come around.
@Courtlynn (66089)
• United States
26 Jul
@depromise not really. Depends on the maturity of the people, and how often they see one another.
• Lagos, Nigeria
27 Jul
@Courtlynn when the distance come in to play then they won't see each other for long. the intimacy start to reduce.
@Prudie (3)
26 Jul
Commitment matters a lot....its a state of mind! When both of them are focused on making the relationship work...it will....as for secrets...you may be right and you may be wrong....if there's transparency one can easily know where their spouse is at a particular time no matter the distance.
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
@prudie nice comment but I don't think someone will always have d time to tell you where ever the person is bcos the person be so busy to inform you. sometimes find it unnecessary. sml
26 Jul
@depromise it cannot be every time... I said at a particular time....I'm speaking from experience tho.
• Lagos, Nigeria
27 Jul
@Prudie well I got your point. I think is self determination.
@kobesbuddy (46254)
• East Tawas, Michigan
25 Jul
Yes, you are correct. Distance love is very hard to maintain, I'm positive about that!
• Lagos, Nigeria
26 Jul
@kobesbuddy that is true, most distance relationship does not work. but some will say all is OK even when there are a lot of issues.