Betrayal

@Misty08 yeh very bad, she didn't value our friendship. Didn't even say sorry

@angelmels . Yes. Sometimes i couldn't believe some people won't even say sorry at all. But just don't mind her. She has lost someone true. Coz she's fake.

Oh my. That's pretty bad. It's like being duped and that person took advantage of your kindness. I really can't understand why people like that exist. I may sound harsh, but seriously. It breaks my heart that selfless and kind people get hurt because of people who doesn't value the good things in life. I don't know if guilt haunts them at all.

Yes. It's quite good to cancel out negative things. But it's pretty heartbreaking too, I guess. Most especially if you have loved and considered that person as a part of the family, but that person never felt the same towards you

@SabrinaS Oh my. That's sad. I'm sorry about that. Yeah. We have to look at the Better side of things.. Sometimes, bad things happen for us to appreciate the good ones to come. And most often, they're not just good. They're actually the best. Let's just try to reinvent ourselves. :)

@Misty08 Got played by my bff of 20 years. I was in shock. But now after 2 years i am happy that it happened.

Secrets my friend and honesty. Trusting them about your thoughts and being open to them about everything. But they managed to betray you in return

@Misty08 are you still friends with them?

@Misty08 Indeed.What would you do when you encountered a betrayal?

I see. Yes. It's quite difficult. To patch things up with people who never valued you and severed your trust instead. It's so sad.

@renicemae I have encountered it. Experienced it for real. Of course, I reacted unwell. I went berserk.hahaha. I May be good but I'm still human. It sucks coz a friend I considered a sister did it, and just thought of my reactions as drama. I got mad at her for her ignorance and indifference. She kept the truth from me to protect my feelings. But she knew I was in need of that truth. In the end, I said goodbye to her. She never tried to patch things up anyway. I just let her be.

Yes. Pretty difficult. And betrayal of trust is definitely the worst, most especially if done twice in a row by two different people.

@Misty08 We are civil since we have a daughter to think about and because it was nearly 20 years ago that it happened.

Wow. Thanks for the share. Im not that mean, so I guess i have to apologize but I actually find the scene a bit funny..hahaha. anyway, how are you now? If you dont mind me asking, Are you in good terms? Civil or what?

@sumofalltears oh. That's great. I believe that's the most important. You make the best of what you can for the sake of the kid. That's nice.

@Misty08 these kinds of lessons hurt but you just become more guarded for next time.

@CookieMonster46 Yes. I guess they serve as lessons to at least make us strong.

It's sad when this happens. Learning lessons that are quite painful

@Misty08 I have to say this but it is hard to trust any one these days, and it makes me feel bad when you are friend with someone yet you still have to be on guard with that person. Still be friend with that person but just be on guard from now on.

@atoz1to10 . I say goodbye to people like that. That's just in my case. Well the moment I trust, I fully entrust you for real. And if you're gonna break it, over and over, as much as I don't want to lose u, I just have to say goodbye. I DON'T wanna live surrounded by people that are untrustworthy. It's difficult to be on guard all the time. I don't think relationships will be good if there's a wall of separation between people

Yes. It's difficult to trust that person fully again, right? It's like keeping a potential enemy with you, by your side.