Do you borrow clothes from your sibling?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 6, 2017 3:23am CST
This is what I hated the most. Borrowing from someone's clothes. My Mother is like that. She always borrows clothes whether it's shirts, shorts or pants from my siblings. Like what the h! Today Mother borrowed a shirt from our youngest Brother although she has something to wear she likes to wear our youngest clothing. Younger Brother was upset because our Mother is like this all the time. After our Mother wears the clothes, she will leave it somewhere and didn't bother to give it back to him. Plus it will leave something smelly in the underarm when she used it, sometimes it will leave a yellowish stain there. She also sometimes wears mine even if it's small. And when I'm going to wear it, it's very big anymore and I don't have a choice but to give it to her instead. I really don't like this kind of attitude. A Mother who doesn't buy our clothes wears our clothes whenever she likes. I remember I made a discussion about her who doesn't like the gift I gave her. Because she wants it's either my sibling's clothes or mine.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
It's the other way around, my son AJ loves to borrow clothes from me. He borrows those dri-fit clothes especially the long sleeves. I just let it because I don't usually use the long sleeves. What I want to use are the singlet and the shorts for my running.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
At least you and your son both have the same built. And I think it's okay.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
@JustBhem He's big boy now and he always borrow some things from me; bull cap and even shoes.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
@ilocosboy Good to hear you are close with your son.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
6 Aug 17
I never did, because I only have a brother, a very tall and big guy, while I am petite and very light weight.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
I used to wear guy shirt before because it comforts me. And when I aged, I no longer wearing baggy clothes anymore.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
6 Aug 17
@JustBhem My brother shirts would have been far too big for me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
@LadyDuck You can still use it as a sleep dress I guess.
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@MGjhaud (23171)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
My sister and I have different tastes so no hehe..
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@MGjhaud (23171)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
I see. Thanks for sharing Miss Joy.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
7 Aug 17
My younger brother is taller and bigger than me so I get to borrow some of his clothes. I even get to keep some of his shoes.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
7 Aug 17
@JustBhem true that as long as you ask properly beforehand and you return it.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Aug 17
I see. I think it's okay for siblings to sibling to borrow each other's clothes.
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@dodo19 (47077)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Aug 17
If it bothers you, maybe you should talk to her and let her know how you feel.
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@dodo19 (47077)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Aug 17
@JustBhem That does seem right. She should listen. Maybe there's a way for you to lock your close up or something.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
@dodo19 I used to lock my room, she only uses it when it is in the laundry.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
I've already told her about that it is not a good thing but she doesn't bother to listen.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
i have some dresses of my late mother because we have the same body built. i cannot borrow shirts from my sister because she is shorter than me, and also stouter than me.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Aug 17
@JustBhem really? i guess she wants to have a new boyfriend?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
Good to hear that my friend. Unlike my Mother, she wants to look young that is why she likes to wear my sibling's clothes.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Aug 17
@ridingbet Maybe she just want's to look young. Lol.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
7 Aug 17
No I don't borrow clothes from my siblings.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
6 Aug 17
Perhaps you can ask your mom out and you can shop clothes that she likes. How old is she? Why would she wear something that would not fit her of not her own?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
My Mom has an attitude issue so we never get along. She wants what I like. One time we shop her something but she wants to have a lot. So since then I never let her go with me and besides, she easily gets bored and started wearing angry faces.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
6 Aug 17
The only solution I see is that you all buy suitcases for your stuff and lock them with keys. Has your mother got problems becoming older? Does she hope to appear young when she's wearing her children's clothes?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Aug 17
She was before like she can't go outside without wearing makes ups. Maybe she thinks she will look young if she gets to wear my sibling's clothes.