“Ma’am, can I borrow a cap of one of your students?”

@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
August 8, 2017 6:35am CST
This was the question of one staff nurse as soon as I went inside the nurses’ station of the medical ward where we have our duty on. The female nurse is that one who acts so superior and even acts like the CI of my students, often ignoring my presence; but this morning, she was all smiles while asking me if she can borrow one nurse’s cap of my students. Professionally, I declined and told her that I won’t lend her any cap from my students because the nurse’s cap is part of their uniform (they are senior nursing students). Right there and then, the smile from the nurse’s lips went off, and she left the station. In my mind, I replied that since the nurse’s cap is the symbol of our profession, it is not right to “lend our profession to others”, even if we are of the same profession. The students earned their caps by being good in their studies; why then that some staff nurses don’t have their personal caps to use? (I notice many nurse’s caps scattered anywhere in the nurse’s station, and maybe that nurse was not able to get one for herself). I have my own nurse’s cap, complete with 3 hair clips.
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
8 Aug 17
Thanks for sharing your story, especially about the cap. I didn't know how important it was until now.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
8 Aug 17
I too didnt know the importance of the Nurse cap. Thanks for letting us know @ridingbet
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 17
@atoz1to10 , it is very symbolic cap of nurses.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 17
@vsai2008 , A nurse' cap is not easy to achieve.The Boar Exam alone to become a registered nurses hard to reach,
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@dollaboy (6048)
8 Aug 17
You have tackled the situation pretty well, that's well done, Ingrid
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 17
@dollaboy , at least she has a very firm decision not to allow that nurse to wear other's cap.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 17
@dollaboy , thanks.,
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@dollaboy (6048)
8 Aug 17
@cacay1 that's very good, erly
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
9 Aug 17
You did the right thing. She should have brought her cap with her or at the very least, should have kept a spare cap.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
13 Aug 17
@ridingbet true. Teach them to be responsible at small things so that they will continue to be responsible about bigger things in life.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
i bring home my own nurse's cap, and i tell my students the same thing too. they should not lend their caps too to their classmates.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Aug 17
@allen0187 i agree. and they should be responsible while there are still some educators to teach them the values and attitudes they must have when they become professionals.
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• Philippines
11 Aug 17
Oh, she started laxing already since she's no longer contractual nurse? It's a shame that not all nurse in our country is for vocation. It's very clear some people do it for money. I remember one interview about a nursing student answered that being a nurse is to serve CLIENTS not patients..
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• Philippines
12 Aug 17
@ridingbet It's so new to me, it's like you think that patient is $$$$ instead of someone who should after to. Well, just my opinion, i find client too depressing for me.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
12 Aug 17
'clients' is another term for 'patients' and it is already accepted in the nursing profession or any medical field. in fact, the word 'client' is already in use when i was still a student. 'patient' is somehow so depressing word.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
12 Aug 17
@Letranknight2015 to each his own. i do not consider sick people as those who give us money. that is why there is a distinction between those who work their profession in a business way and those who do their profession as a vocation. i consider my work as a vocation and yet i sometimes call the patients as clients. besides, we take good care of people who do not pay or those who belong to indigent level of social status, but we connote them as clients. the word 'patient' for me is depressing, and this is my own personal opinion, and it should neither be taken as self-incriminating. i hope we get this clear.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
9 Aug 17
You were quite right. Since she wants to act superior, she can make certain she always has her own cap!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
10 Aug 17
@ridingbet she is really full of herself. It is good you told her no.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
11 Aug 17
@bluesa i have met different kinds of health care providers like me and i somehow know their working attitude now. i think i can guess if they are nurses for money, or nurses for vocation.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
this 'superior nurse' has the attitude problem, and she is just an NI; she was promoted from being a contractual nurse.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
8 Aug 17
Careless of her - appearing on duty without her cap.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 17
@Kandae11 (, yes, that is the best word to describe that nurse, careless to the maximum.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
true. she is a lax nurse for that matter.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Aug 17
Yes, why does she have to borrow another nurse's cap. It's somewhat a personal thing to borrow.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
i believe she should have a cap because there was nursing audit where all nurse-supervisors and the chief nurse do their general rounds in all wards of the hospital.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Aug 17
@ridingbet Then, why is she borrowing another nurse's cap? How irresponsible she is.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
12 Aug 17
@SIMPLYD there were so many nurses-on-duty that day and maybe the rest picked up the caps at random. this nurse did not have one so she wanted to borrow a cap from my students which i declined.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
8 Aug 17
It's here negligence towards her duty , when the cap is so important she should carry her own.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
9 Aug 17
She should be wearing her own cap. And for me that cap is very symbolic. You, nurses, burned your midnight oils to study and study. I hope she learned her lesson.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
thanks.
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 17
That nurse lacks the right etiquette. She has to respect the symbol of a nurse' cap.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
i agree.
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
8 Aug 17
I love what you said to her. A personal item, such as a nurse's cap, should not be handed out willy nilly!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Aug 17
yes and we should all act professionally.