How Could People Do This?

In the European countries is normal in our days to live together without being married. It was not common when I was young (50 years ago), but habits, laws and mentality evolve with the times.

True, I had that discussion with a colleague of mine and living together unmarried is forbidden in your country. In my coutry it is also taboo but more and more people are doing it so people are getting used to the idea now. Still marriage is the number one priority. Religious restrictions are for the devoted, so not all people would respect or follow that restriction. People are not perfect. Some made mistakes of committing it because they are not thinking straight or they are too young. I don't see that dishonesty. I see that as a lesson learned. They don't need judgmental people, what they need is understanding and the oppurtunity to stand up again.

If trust is not there then what to do with the person. This is applicable in all kind of relations. Trust is more important than love. On the other topics, people may not be alike. We respect and follow what we learnt from our culture. Getting a good culture is not an easy thing.

Times are changing. Lots happen behind the curtain everywhere. But for me, restraint is the way and commitment - siva

Ya I know it is sin in your country #BD. But living relationship that the Choice of one own I don't find it good to interfere in someone personal matters!!

It all depends on that individual, it's their personal choice, I think we cannot speak for everybody.

My grandfather once told me that trust is the foundation of all kinds of relationship. So I cannot be with someone I don't trust at all!