Never Blame Anyone In Your Life
By SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16094)
Bangladesh
August 17, 2017 8:58am CST
Recently I did something good and smart that make me feel awesome. A fake ID on fb become my friend, he use a picture of other person he knows and pretend to be someone he was not, at the beginning he start flirting with me but i advice him good things and treat as a friend so he confess his reality that he is from my city and he has a wife with daughter and he found guilty that he acting with me fake love but I made him understand that I never gonna fall in his love n make friendship to learn something from the fake people. I guessed he was fake but i never misbehave even he was surprised when he confess all the truth I was smiling on messenger call. But I can't continue friendship with such people who has or had bad intention so I block him right there. I'm sure if he try this with a teenage girl she must cheated by him, but thank god I was smart enough to deal with this fake person. I forgive him because I'm not weak and avoid him now because I'm smart. So I can't blame him that he is bad, he help me to learn something :)
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Image source: facebook
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10 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
17 Aug 17
You can't trust everybody. You did the right thing by blocking and ignoring him. He was up to no good and chances are he is also doing it to other girls out there.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
17 Aug 17
@Happy2BeMe yes dear he confess that he create that account for other girls and accidently involved with me and now he felt guilty for me because i was always good to he and never misbehave for his being fake.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
18 Aug 17
@Happy2BeMe No dear, I'm a blessed person,Almighty is always with me, it your goodness that you found me good 
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
17 Aug 17
Most user now on Facebook is poser. That is based on my opinion. Because I heard so many news about that. Using a pic or profile of other to ask for help and also money. And if you in a bad shot they block mailing you. So I guess we're not trust anyone if we don't know their personally.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
17 Aug 17
@resukill22 yup agree with you, we need to be more careful when we are using social media
@qingshanqc (41)
• Enshi, China
19 Aug 17
in my country ,it's hard to use fb.So no trouble.but fake friend is too bad
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
19 Aug 17
@qingshanqc yup fake friends are really bad, I have heard that you china people don't learn english, then how you know english? asking from my curious mind!
@qingshanqc (41)
• Enshi, China
21 Aug 17
@SHOHANA sorry,for i have some else to do yestoday,i can't respond in time.So in China ,we children usually study English from junior high school. But our English is not very useful because most of us never study or use it when we graduate from college.Even worse,we have no truly foreign friend to practise.But i do love English,so i keep studying it .Someday i'll be abroad to meet and make more friends!
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@qingshanqc (41)
• Enshi, China
21 Aug 17
@SHOHANA sorry,for i have some else to do yestoday,i can't respond in time.So in China ,we children usually study English from junior high school. But our English is not very useful because most of us never study or use it when we graduate from college.Even worse,we have no truly foreign friend to practise.But i do love English,so i keep studying it .Someday i'll be abroad to meet and make more friends!
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
18 Aug 17
Unfortunately there are a lot of fake people out there you need to watch out for. Online and offline some people are just too unhappy to where they want everyone else in their dreamworld and make them unhappy as well.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
19 Aug 17
@KrauseHome I never allow fake people around and this was my first experience and the fake person unveiled by me and he was known to me surprisingly lol
@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
29 Aug 17
Yes..There are a lot of "FAKE" accounts on different communication sites..That`s why I really don`t give my account to just anyone and I only add friends there whom I see in person and a real friend..There I don`t need to have many friends, only a few real friends..Better be careful than sorry
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
29 Aug 17
very well said my friend, thanks for your views @m_audrey6788
@LeaPea2417 (36500)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Aug 17
I am glad you saw through him and blocked him.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
17 Aug 17
It is wonderful that you learned something, and I find your forgiving attitude to be inspiring. I can only hope that his wife will be as forgiving ... but at least he did tell you.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
18 Aug 17
@FayeHazel yup dear, i'm happy that I have learned a lesson from it and its difficult to trust anyone, nowadays
