The effect of broken family to children

Pasay, Philippines
August 22, 2017 2:46am CST
There were too many reasons why there are broken families but of course it all starts in broken marriages that automatically will drag the situation of the children too unless they don't have children yet. I am actually bothered reading some family problems on how does this affect to some children up to the point that you can see the different perspective of each children. There some bringing the burden emotionally, and worst case to the extent that some are having different kinds of attitude problem, though there are some who are understanding and focusing on the brighter side like they are being busy in different kind of field like activities, academics and so on. Although at times what bothers me is that when parents are having problems to the school assignment of their children that pertains about complete family. Some can provide the picture of complete family like there is a father and a mother while the single mothers cannot deny the fact that their father is not around or somewhat they are separated. There are children who are being insecure that they belong to the broken family while others are complete. I understand it is hard to explain to the children regarding the situation of being separated. But I am still thinking otherwise what if the parents could be honest as early as possible regarding the situation? I mean no need to be in whole details especially if it is too complicated but help the children to accept that they have no father or if the father is absentee and somewhat abusive they have to tell the truth that it is not healthy to the family anymore due to misunderstandings? Do you think that is possible? Because in reality at some cases it is better to be separated rather than with a horrible husband, wife, mother, father, parents and so on.
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@Mrgana1 (340)
• Nigeria
22 Aug 17
Mariage is planned for two best or good friend but there are situation where people discover their incompatibility at the late hour which always lead to their separation. This scenario affect the children morally, spiritually, academically and emotional cos consultation, guidance, discipline and feeling of togetherness will not be there for them
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Aug 17
do you have children? you are right it is different for some children. we are all different in ways