Judging people through a third person!

@Sreekala (23402)
India
August 24, 2017 4:42am CST
Dear friends, The inspiration of this post is a status message of a friend, who posted a statement in our native language. I understood she must be in trouble with some comments by some of her friends/relatives. Usually a person comes up with meaningful status messages to show off the frustration. Her message was “don’t judge me by listening your guest’s words even though the guests are so good for you”. In my case, if I listen the opinion by that way, I do think then observe the person to know whether the statement is correct or not. Do you judge others by listening a third person?
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@Teekaaa (5698)
• India
25 Aug
No ... it's actually wrong .... I won't do that.... Unless and until I see on my eyes I will not believe anything easily..... but I will listen to them.. and as you said I too check whether the statement is correct or not... And then I would act accordingly...
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@Sreekala (23402)
• India
25 Aug
That is the right method indeed.
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@Teekaaa (5698)
• India
25 Aug
@prashu228 (25797)
• India
24 Aug
No ,I never do that. It's hurting if people do the same. We should make an opinion ourselves basing on how the individual is with us. Not on basing others opinions. But unfortunately this is what happens most of the time.
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@Sreekala (23402)
• India
24 Aug
You are right, according to me, if a person is bad, I will treat him/her how she/he behaves to me. If they are good to me then my impression will be like that.
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@prashu228 (25797)
• India
24 Aug
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@ridingbet (55920)
• Philippines
25 Aug
i just listen but i don't judge easily.
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@Sreekala (23402)
• India
25 Aug
That is good
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@franxav (5204)
24 Aug
Judging others by hearing the opinions of others usually takes us to wrong conclusions.
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@Sreekala (23402)
• India
24 Aug
Exactly and it may lead other complications too.
@sabtraversa (13348)
• Italy
24 Aug
Of course not, I take everything in account but I want to test the thing myself. I'm one of those who would tell the "victim" someone talked crap behind them.
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@Sreekala (23402)
• India
24 Aug
I agree with you, some people like to talk that way and I don't appreciate such people.
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• Guangdong, China
25 Aug
Sometimes a third person will say something based on his or her judgement, but I will watch whether what he or she said is true. Seeing is believing. If setting a preconceived fixed image on others already, you have no chance to find out ohters' original nature.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
24 Aug
Bottom line, some people like making trouble for others at times. I believe what the person says, not what others say.
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@weevee18 (529)
24 Aug
To me it affects my view of a person but it will not affect the way I will treat that person.
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• United States
24 Aug
I certainly do not. It is all hearsay.
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@SHOHANA (7178)
• Bangladesh
24 Aug
This is disgusting when people judge this way, for me if a person good to me then its doesn't matter how much he/she is good or bad for this world. I judge people from my personal experience .
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@Tracy04 (10868)
• Malaysia
26 Aug
Don't judge the book by its cover. I always try to follow that.