married without kids or married with kids?

Portugal
September 13, 2017 11:49am CST
Hi everyone Do you prefer to be married with kids or married but without kids? I am not married yet but I want to get married one day and for a few years i would like to travel wuth my husband and after a few years have kids. Because when we have kids we dont habe much free time to focus on each other. Kids will need us a lot so for the first few years i would like to focus more on our relationship. What about you guys? Please share
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@JeeyanDee (2753)
15 Sep
Married with kids without a doubt! I believe kids make a family complete.
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• Portugal
19 Sep
I also want to have kids one day
• United States
14 Sep
At the moment I am single, without kids and quite satisfied . . . but I have an ex who still pops over to see how I am doing and will always, gratefully, be in my life in some fashion no matter who he is bedding down with.
• Portugal
19 Sep
If your ex is always after you is because he still likes you. But do you have any feelings for him?
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• United States
19 Sep
@sweetloveforeve we still love each other even if we no longer share a home and no matter who either of us end up growing old with, we will ALWAYS be in each others life as we choose to be
• Portugal
20 Sep
@enlightenedpsych2 aw but why dont you be with each other again? If you still love each other you should be happy together
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• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Sep
I will prefer to spend a year with my future husband then start having kids after settling everything in our new home :)
• Portugal
19 Sep
Me too :) i want to first enjoy marriage and then have kids
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• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep
@sweetloveforeve Good! I realize that people who have kids immediately always have too many responsibilities and they never really settle in marriage or even enjoy it
• Portugal
20 Sep
@mildredtabitha yes because kids need too much attention. And to give the maximum attention to the kids, the husband is a bit left aside.
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• United States
13 Sep
I made the decision in my early 20's that I did not want kids. That was my choice I did it for me.
• Portugal
19 Sep
As long as you are happy with your decision thats the most important thing
13 Sep
At the moment , I don't want kids , maybe one day . I want to travel and discover the world. There is so much to see.
• Portugal
19 Sep
I think you are right charlotte we should have kids only when we feel ready for it