I am not happy with him

September 20, 2017 11:34pm CST
I just want a simple life but why is it seem so hard. There's alot of things inside me now that i cant explain but all i know is i am not happy and i just want to be with my kids. Just me and my kids.
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@yugocean (9965)
• India
21 Sep 17
Happiness is not easy, personal satisfaction cannot be achieved without joy of giving. In a family, all members should think about happiness of family, and then you are happy.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Sep 17
A family that prays together stays together
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21 Sep 17
@mildredtabitha i know. And thank you for this. I am still hoping for the better.
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21 Sep 17
I agree with that. That is why i am just thinking and looking at my kids smiles and i am good. I will just make myself busy. And theres always mylot friends whom i can talk too whenever i feel like exploding. Thank you.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 17
Try talking to a marraige consultant to space out your problem with Him. Kids are innocent
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21 Sep 17
He doesnt know how to communicate, he only talks. I already tried everyway that i can think off to communicate and let him know what i really feel.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 17
@Friendlypink so sorry, maybe just forget about him.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
26 Sep 17
If you are happy with yourself then you don't need anyone else to make your happiness complete, our partners should increase our happiness.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
21 Sep 17
You have the decision and you should explain to your kids why such this situation. It maybe hard but of course they have to respect your feelings
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21 Sep 17
My kids are only 5 and 3.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
21 Sep 17
@Friendlypink that's not fair to sacrifice your own happiness. Is your husband has a mistress or treat you bad?
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21 Sep 17
I am still sacrificing my own happiness. And hoping that someday some how i will feel loved and be inlove.
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@Ganma7 (3664)
27 Oct 17
Go with your gut feelings. Life's is short don't be unhappy. Wishing you luck
@Sophia427 (139)
25 Sep 17
I can understand your feeling. Its a very difficult world. All we need is happiness and that is all that we don't get. I suggest you do one thing, just one simple thing. As soon as you get up in the morning, even before getting out of the bed, just sit there on your bed and think of one thing, maybe just one small thing in this whole world that makes you happy. It can be as simple as a beautiful rose, your favorite TV serial, a freshly brewed coffee, smile on your loved one's face.Just anything and keep it with you for the whole day. When you feel sad, think of it, when someone hurts you, think of it, even when you are feeling normal and doing your regular work, think of it. There is a heart deep inside all of us that desperately needs to be happy but outside situations don't let it be. So whatever little we can do for ourselves, we should do it. Believe me it will go a long way. I hope you are able to find your happiness soon.
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@LilyBeBack (1994)
• United Kingdom
25 Oct 17
It's never a good idea to stay together just for the sake of the children, they pick up on a lot more than you realise and as they grow up they won't thank you for keeping them in a house where they have two unhappy parents. Separation is difficult at first but your children will be better off with two separate but happy parents. Please don't stay in a situation where you're unhappy, life has so much more to offer you
@LeaPea2417 (36536)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Sep 17
I hope it can work out where you can be with your kids.
@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Sep 17
It is terrible when you are not happy in a relationship, I understand you would only want it to be you and your kids. But try to talk to him, I hope you'll be able to find some happiness.
@antonbunot (11092)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Oct 17
I went over your post 3 times and could not find the "HIM" . . . Who is the HIM in your post?! And admirer?
• Dallas, Texas
22 Sep 17
Take them somewhere so you all can have a get together, maybe talk things out a bit and get their opinion of things.
@just4him (307655)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Sep 17
I hope you can be.
@Reemal (30)
25 Sep 17
Your children are so lucky because they have beautiful mom. There mom living for only their happiness. You are to good. I hope you will do everything for your children.