It is my Father's Birthday.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 20, 2017 11:10pm CST
Ever since my Mother is sick like me, Father sometimes visits my Mother, checking on her and sometimes give her money for her treatment. And I know Mother likes it especially when it comes to money because we know how she loves money. And despite Father giving her attention, she still did not appreciate it. She is still cruel.
Now Father is celebrating his 56th Birthday. He invited us to celebrate it at his other house. And also by Sunday, he wants us to come over because we are going to the beach for his grandchildren.
I have nothing against my Father because he listens to me, and supported my treatment before and even now. Even if he is still separated from my Mother I know he still cares for her, it's just my Mother is sick of something mentally. Full of revenge and hate for people who want to get close to her.
Anyway, who's Birthday is today?
The photo is mine and that is my Father Bear and Basty. 
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15 responses
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
you are lucky to have a caring father like him. i hope your mother will learn to love him back.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 Oct 17
@JustBhem is it safe to say that you are your father's favorite child?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
@ridingbet
I don't think so. Maybe I was before.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
22 Oct 17
Hope you guys have a great time celebrating your dad's birthday.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
Happy birthday to your father. I pray for good health and protection. And you and your mom.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
@JustBhem you're welcome my friend. Beach party is a good idea.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Oct 17
@jobelbojel
That would be tomorrow, Sunday. But I don't think I will come. I will probably get tired.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
Happy birthday to your father. I can tell you are always important in his heart.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
oh yeah, you're unica hija, that's nice.
Why don't you live with your Dad?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Oct 17
@ilocosboy
I can't because no one will gonna take care of me.
Unlike here, I have my Brothers and relatives if sometimes something will happen to me.
And once we resolve our issues with money and debt, I and the boyfriend will have our own space.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 17
sorry, are your parents divorced? It is sad that children are separated. Happy birthday to your dad
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Oct 17
@peachpurple
Yes, they are legally married and not legally separated.
My Father has another woman.
My Mother also has before and they have a son.
So, we have a brother from someone else, not our Father.
But Father chooses to be with my Mother, then Father thought Mother has changed her attitude.
Which is not, she still nags and not being a good wife to Father.
Father has no choice to left her again and go back to the other woman whom he never had a contact for a long time.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 17
@JustBhem so they are legally married but stayed apart because of disagreement? Is your dad alone or with someone else?
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Actually we just had dinner together. Happy birthday to your father! I hope he had a good day and stay healthy and happy
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
21 Oct 17
Happy birthday to your dad... have a blessed day
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@Letranknight2015 (51532)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
You are still blessed for having a Father still. I can't blame your Dad if he had separated from her, I've seen your post about how much your mother treats you. It's a shame that you two should comfort each other and not hate you the way she's doing to you...Happy Birthday to your dad.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Oct 17
Yes, I am still lucky to have a Father, I am still lucky because I still have a Mother, but not the way Mother's are doing to their only daughter. That is why I am still thankful despite facing this struggles, I have people who still care for me.
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
21 Oct 17
Happy birthday to your Dad. He sounds like a good man.
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@runningthegalaxies (324)
• United States
22 Oct 17
I hope your father has a blessed day. =)
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