My boyfriend chose his bestfriend, and now we broke up.
By A loves B
@A_loves_B (1608)
Indonesia
October 22, 2017 8:33am CST
It happened just now, some minutes ago.
His bestfriend didn't want him talking with me, he wanted my boyfriend to block me. My boyfriend choses him rather than me as his best friend has done so many things for him and his family.
I didn't want to break their friendship, so I let him choose. He said he couldn't leave him, but he asked me if time changed, would I marry him one day.
I couldn't answer him, just said goodbye.
I'm crying right now. I'm sorry if I can't reply your comments immadiately
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12 responses
@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
22 Oct 17
don't worry everything will be alright... by how you state it, I think your boyfriend loves you, he maybe ain't strong enough yet. Choosing between two people who is dear to you is really hard, it's like both of you are in a cliff and he can only save one. And he even offer you marriage someday. I think he left you not because he is taking you for granted, but because he trust you enough that you'll wait for him.
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 17
@Alian123 Thank you. I will give it a try.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
22 Oct 17
@A_loves_B well that is up to you, if you still love him. There's always a technique on waiting while having fun, just to lighten things up 
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@YesWay (3674)
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22 Oct 17
@A_loves_B
Let your friends support you and get you through this heartbreak
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Oct 17
It sounds like it wasn't meant to be. I'm sorry. =( If a man chooses anyone over you-he's probably not the right one for you.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
22 Oct 17
if you said yes, you will marry him one day, he will choose you over his best friend?
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
23 Oct 17
@A_loves_B he wants you to elope with him to another country? are you ready to leave your family? how will the two of you survive in that new country?
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 17
He would never break friendship with his bestfriend. He offered me to run away to other country with him so that his bestfriend could forget him. I didn't respond to this offer. 
@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 17
@hereandthere I don't have any idea about how to survive in other country. He just wanted to roam all over the world with me.
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
22 Oct 17
you didn't lose anything,,,your boyfriend is the person who lost,,,,he lost you.... you need to move on and enjoy life... but please don't wait for anyone, they may never come back,,,just be strong and you will find true love some where along the way...good luck in whatever you do///////////////
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 17
A guy. They've been bestfriends since they were both in school. He is always ready for my ex-boyfriend.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Oct 17
@A_loves_B
Hmm. That is weird. Well, I am sorry for this. I hope you can move on someday.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
23 Oct 17
It sounds ridiculous to me that your boy friend's best friend wanted your boy friend to severe ties with you and he ultimately did it. To my mind, your boy friend does not seem to be a sensible person and he does not deserve you. There is no need to marry such a guy, who does not respect you or your sentiments.
Please do not cry or feel upset, these kinds of unexpected incidents happen in life and we should take a lesson from such incidents.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Oct 17
@A_loves_B Your (boy) friend is probably immature and he needs to attain maturity.
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@RoyaIPRINCE (157)
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29 Oct 17
Well I am mature enougb and we are together again
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 17
Thank you. I just still couldn't understand with guys' friendships.
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@youless (112131)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Oct 17
I am sorry to hear that. I don't understand why his best friend can't get on well with you. Both of you are important for him and it is terrible to let him choose one part only. This is so difficult. Is his best friend jealous? It doesn't make a sense. Sooner or later he will get married.
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
31 Oct 17
Thank you. It wasso difficult. Now everything has come back to normal. We are back together again. 
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
@A_loves_B that's good that everything is solved now for you both.
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 17
Hi. Now everything is alright. We are back together and we realize that we need each other. Thank you.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
22 Oct 17
Oho.. so sorry,but if he didn't choose you ,he is not meant for you. I know it's painful. All the best
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