Poor old Max
By rebelann1949
@rebelann (111195)
El Paso, Texas
October 25, 2017 2:43pm CST
Poor Max, he doesn't groom himself the way he should and now I can see why, he'd rather let Meetzee do it. 
Everytime I try to spend time with those two she decides she has to groom him. Is that weird? I've always had just one cat so having these two is different for me.
Oh, some good news for me this morning, I caught Boobear sitting in front of the entryway of their room and she was actually having a conversation with Meetzee. 
That made my day.
So, should I be hopeful that in another year they will get along?
Everytime I try to spend time with those two she decides she has to groom him. Is that weird? I've always had just one cat so having these two is different for me.
Oh, some good news for me this morning, I caught Boobear sitting in front of the entryway of their room and she was actually having a conversation with Meetzee.
That made my day.
So, should I be hopeful that in another year they will get along?11 people like this
12 responses
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
26 Oct 17
They seem to be in a comfort zone type of routine.
Friendship can't be forced...The cats know that very well. ..So taking their time to really get to know each other well.
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Oct 17
I should have known @responsiveme sorry about that.1 person likes this
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
26 Oct 17
@rebelann no, it's just that I wanted you to know I know .Also your job was with data analysis, is that right.
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
29 Oct 17
I agree. It's become funny though.
She caught me when I caught her 'talking' to Meetzee and just like the clever girl she is she realized I wouldn't fall for her scaredy cat routine anymore .... now she runs like the devil past their door if she thinks I'm watching.
It's going to be interesting.
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
25 Oct 17
He is typical male, just sits back and allows Meetzee to groom him as if he is doing her a favor. 
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
26 Oct 17
It sounds like they will to me @rebelann .
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Oct 17
I guess cats are just weird @nanette64 I'm better with dogs cuz I get them but cats keep throwing me for loops.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
26 Oct 17
@rebelann Yeah, got 13. In some cases it's called, "I will tolerate you, just don't bother me." I had to separate a momma one time because she wanted to beat up on her 4 children. And they were already 6 years old. Go figure that one.
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@Marilynda1225 (79772)
• United States
26 Oct 17
I've always had more than one cat and they all have their different personalities but Max letting Meetzee groom him just seems like he's found a better way than doing it himself 
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Oct 17
Thanks.
I wish I knew. Sometimes I think it's because of jealousy but I'm totally baffled. The one giving the bath is a female and for a while I just thought that's what female cats do. I only remember Prissy grooming Stanley but then she bore him along with 4 others so maybe that was a mother son thingy.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Oct 17
They just need to used to each other.
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