Which is better?
October 27, 2017 12:16am CST
To teach your kids what you want them to be in the future? Or have them choose what they want for their future? So, I was the one who attended my nephew's Career day at Four Square church today and I was amazed on how parents dressed up their kids. And this makes me think that, is this what their kids really want? Or is this what their parents want for their kids? Then Teacher answered my thoughts. Kids should need guidance in every stage of their lives. If this is what they want at the moment, let them be but don't neglect their ideas in the future. Because we never can tell their passion when they come of age. As parents, we need to guide them, taking care of them and stay with them. For now, let them be kids and teach them a good deed. The photo is mine and in the photo is my nephew Basty and his partner.
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I agree in the second one, let them choose what they want to be in the future. This is my observation when I was teaching before that, kids with pressure from parents to be on top or to have a good grades and deprived from doing what they want are those stubborn kids in the class, while those kids who are in average level , are those good follower and happy kids.
There are parents who are like that but others are not. The only thing I know which the parents should do is to teach their children on the way they should go and when they grow they won't depart from it. I think this is more on character building.