How often do you fight with your partner?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 8, 2017 10:58am CST
An hour ago, I and the boyfriend had a fight over things that can be handled right away. We were chatting like we always do every evening when suddenly he stops replying to me. I flooded him with questions and still no answer. So, it makes me upset.
Then after a while, he messages me telling that he was outside of their house because one of our friends calls him. He wants him to attend to the last wake of one of our subordinate in our Volunteer Team. What makes me upset is, he never replies right away to my messages and should have told me about it instead, in that way I should be okay. But no, it took 20 minutes before he replies to my question and it was urgent.
I did not talk to him and was crying because I am so stressed today.
Then he said he is sorry.
And I feel better now.
The photo is the boyfriend.
Sorry, I can't find pictures to post here.
So I use this.
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9 responses
@sabtraversa (12941)
• Italy
13 Nov 17
Men sometimes forget the "magic word = sorry" and that often makes things worse. 
That would have made me angry, but after some time I became accustomed to not receive an immediate reply or a good night message because "he suddenly fell asleep". 
However, we broke up. Not for the reason above... not for the reason above only, of course. 
That would have made me angry, but after some time I became accustomed to not receive an immediate reply or a good night message because "he suddenly fell asleep".
However, we broke up. Not for the reason above... not for the reason above only, of course. 1 person likes this
@sabtraversa (12941)
• Italy
13 Nov 17
@JustBhem It was all about reproaches, misunderstandings, different points of view. I was becoming too frustrated and I told him it was time to stop, and he agreed.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Nov 17
@sabtraversa
Just like that? No asking for another chance?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Nov 17
you should be patient if he does not reply at once. maybe he is talking to someone.be trustful.
if you continue with that attitude, maybe he will get annoyed, which i hope he won't. 
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
11 Nov 17
@JustBhem but he loves you truly because he should make the first move, right? yu are lucky to have him.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
9 Nov 17
Arguments like that are normal, spice of our love. But maybe sometimes you have to give some considerations to your boyfriend, I think he is truthful to you.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
8 Nov 17
That's so common between partners..it happens with me as well.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
8 Nov 17
We all have arguments and misunderstandings in our relationships. The important thing is the you work it out quickly so you can move forward. I am glad that it all worked out.
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