How often do you fight with your partner?

By Bhem
@JustBhem (31743)
Davao, Philippines
November 8, 2017 10:58am CST
An hour ago, I and the boyfriend had a fight over things that can be handled right away. We were chatting like we always do every evening when suddenly he stops replying to me. I flooded him with questions and still no answer. So, it makes me upset. Then after a while, he messages me telling that he was outside of their house because one of our friends calls him. He wants him to attend to the last wake of one of our subordinate in our Volunteer Team. What makes me upset is, he never replies right away to my messages and should have told me about it instead, in that way I should be okay. But no, it took 20 minutes before he replies to my question and it was urgent. I did not talk to him and was crying because I am so stressed today. Then he said he is sorry. And I feel better now. The photo is the boyfriend. Sorry, I can't find pictures to post here. So I use this.
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12 responses
@Happy2BeMe (74333)
• Canada
8 Nov
We all have arguments and misunderstandings in our relationships. The important thing is the you work it out quickly so you can move forward. I am glad that it all worked out.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Nov
Yes, we always like this. We fight and we sleep not until one says sorry.
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@amadeo (61631)
• United States
8 Nov
Not too often .Nothing to fight about.We give each other space.This is very important.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Oh, yes sometimes. We need our partners to breathe.
@amadeo (61631)
• United States
9 Nov
@JustBhem there you go.Give him sipace
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
@amadeo Yes, I understand it. Thanks.
@sabtraversa (12491)
• Italy
13 Nov
Men sometimes forget the "magic word = sorry" and that often makes things worse. That would have made me angry, but after some time I became accustomed to not receive an immediate reply or a good night message because "he suddenly fell asleep". However, we broke up. Not for the reason above... not for the reason above only, of course.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Nov
Oh, now it makes me curious about the break-up. Lol
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@sabtraversa (12491)
• Italy
13 Nov
@JustBhem It was all about reproaches, misunderstandings, different points of view. I was becoming too frustrated and I told him it was time to stop, and he agreed.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Nov
@sabtraversa Just like that? No asking for another chance?
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@Corbin5 (99892)
• United States
8 Nov
I think most couples have arguments every now and then.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Yes, but not all the time, right?
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@Corbin5 (99892)
• United States
9 Nov
@JustBhem No, not all the time. That would not be a good way to handle a marriage if arguing was all the time.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
@Corbin5 Yes. In a relationship should always give and take.
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@ridingbet (46867)
• Philippines
10 Nov
you should be patient if he does not reply at once. maybe he is talking to someone.be trustful. if you continue with that attitude, maybe he will get annoyed, which i hope he won't.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Nov
He did not reply because he was with other friends. We made an agreement that whatever it is that makes him busy while we are having our moment he should have told me. So that I will not going to bother him.
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@ridingbet (46867)
• Philippines
11 Nov
@JustBhem but he loves you truly because he should make the first move, right? yu are lucky to have him.
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@ilocosboy (34344)
• Philippines
9 Nov
Arguments like that are normal, spice of our love. But maybe sometimes you have to give some considerations to your boyfriend, I think he is truthful to you.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Well, there is no fight we cannot resolve 24 hours. And thanks.
@ilocosboy (34344)
• Philippines
9 Nov
That's good and should be.
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@just4him (110011)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Nov
I'm glad he said he was sorry. He's a nice looking young man.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Thanks for that. Yes, because it was his fault. And I also said I am sorry too.
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@just4him (110011)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Nov
@JustBhem That's good.
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@kepweng (11130)
10 Nov
i have small fight before with my ex but break up Already
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Nov
And what was that all about?
@JudyEv (118657)
• Bunbury, Australia
8 Nov
I'm glad you've sorted out your differences now.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Yes, because after all, we are partners.
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@sharon6345 (118374)
• United States
8 Nov
I have been in relationships where I never had a single fight. The man I am seeing now will be just like that. He has never had a fight with a woman. he is not going to begin with me.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Oh, that's okay. You found a good man,
@prashu228 (25821)
• India
8 Nov
That's so common between partners..it happens with me as well.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov
Yes, and I think it's normal. And not always fight.
@sjvg1976 (18039)
• Delhi, India
8 Nov
This is very small thing for a fight with your partner. You should be understanding , may be he was busy and could not reply to your messages as he mentioned it too.
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@JustBhem (31743)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Nov
At least he should have told me because I'm okay with that.
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