Am I the unluckiest person on earth?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 27, 2017 9:45pm CST
I never thought something bad will happen. All I know is I will have a job in a few days. I'm excited and anxious at the same time thinking about it. Yes, I expect BIG for this job they offered me. Last night, when I was about to slumber and ready to meet the Gods of Dreams when my email tone rang. I am excited. So I hurried to open the email from my suppose to be the employer. There, a sad revelation. I was crying the whole night and now I am having puffy eyes and a throbbing headache. What a deal.
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@LeaPea2417 (36451)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Nov 17
Oh my goodness, so the employer emailed to say you didn't get the job after all?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Not really, he said that they are holding off on this role for a month and that they are sorry for the change. They will get back to me after.
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@LeaPea2417 (36451)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Nov 17
@JustBhem Oh ok. I see. Well, good luck with it after the month goes by.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
@LeaPea2417 Well, I guess I need to look for another freelance job again.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
28 Nov 17
So sorry about this.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Yeah, some things we cannot hold.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Nov 17
ohh no..dont worry...better luck next time
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Yes. You are right. Better luck next time for me.
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
28 Nov 17
I am sorry to hear that. I am sure that you will have the best one soon.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
@JustBhem For practicality sake, I guess I need to indulge in. But still, I am planning to find regular jobs by next year and work as part-time in online teaching.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
How I wish I will soon have a stable job.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
@Shavkat Well, at least you have a job that you like.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
28 Nov 17
I have read below that the job is only postponed one month. Try to calm down and stop crying.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Yeah, I was thinking about our Christmas.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
28 Nov 17
no, you are not. maybe that job is not meant wholly for you that is why they suspended the job. i hope you don't take this negatively. remember the quote? if God closes a door, He opens a window.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
@JustBhem depression can take a few hours to a few days. i hope you have already been lifted out of depression and sadness.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
@ridingbet I think I have depression based on the test I have online but I am not serious about it.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
To be honest, I am so sad. I'm affected. And somehow in the process, I will get over this.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
28 Nov 17
Read your reply to @LeaPea2417 and so sorry about the sudden change in schedule. Hopefully, they get back at you really soon and you get to start your job.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
3 Dec 17
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Hopefully. I am still hopeful that next month they are doing to contact me. I really want to work with them.
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
28 Nov 17
what happened exactly?
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
@JustBhem Oh, i hope it all works out fine.. in the meantime you can look for a part time?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
@lady1993 Yes, and I never stop looking at this very hour.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
They are going to hold my training and they will contact me after a month. There is something with the business or the account I am going to work with.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
28 Nov 17
In times like this, we need to understand the reason behind no matter how hard it is. Prayer helps.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
28 Nov 17
@JustBhem It will like every other storm in our lives, it too shall pass.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
At first, I didn't understand. But later on. I give up and move on. I know I am still sad but this will pass somehow.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
@toniganzon Thanks, Toni. I appreciate it.
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@averygirl72 (37726)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
You are sad for losing a job opportunity? Me I'm depressed for losing my 4 students in tutorial business. We will be lucky someday don't lose hope.
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@averygirl72 (37726)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
@JustBhem So you just have to wait for a month. Where is that account?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
@averygirl72 Yeah, that is why I am looking for a freelance work at the moment. US-based account.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
Oh, really? Why is that? Mine is I need to wait for a month before the account will be open again.
@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 17
Just read in your comment that they're holding it temporarily. I understand your disappointment but try to stay positive. A month will fly by.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Nov 17
Yeah, thank but for the meantime, I will go back to being a freelance. Thanks.
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@just4him (306386)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Nov 17
I'm so sorry you got a bad e-mail from your supposed to be employer.
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@just4him (306386)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Nov 17
@JustBhem I'm sure you are. I hope things get better for you soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
@just4him I hope and I will pray for that. Thanks.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
And I am sad about it. I think I need to look an alternative while waiting for next month.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
28 Nov 17
That's not cool. They got your hopes up for no reason
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
28 Nov 17
@JustBhem as you should, that wasnt right
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
@Courtlynn Yes, but I have no choice but to wait.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Yes, Courtney. I feel bad about it.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
29 Nov 17
I am so sorry to read this. I know how much you were looking forward to this job.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
Yeah, like my expectations drop to negative 0.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
30 Nov 17
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 17
You will get a job soon. Don't worry and be patient.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
Thanks for this encouragement, I know I will.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
28 Nov 17
That is disappointing, was it a full-time job or a freelance job? I hope that you find something in the meantime and good luck when they get back to you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
Suppose to be a full-time job. I am doing it right now.
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• Philippines
28 Nov 17
Not the worst thing ever, holding it for a month? that means there's a chance that they can still offered it to you. Others couldn't really get a job at all, they got no chance and some because of disability. You just had a BAD day, that's all.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
This makes me smile. Thanks a lot for these encouraging words.
@DianneN (246906)
• United States
28 Nov 17
I hope you get the job. Don't cry over it. If it's meant to be, it will happen.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Nov 17
Thanks, Miss D. I cried because I am sad. Now, I will be okay.
@Kandae11 (53679)
28 Nov 17
Have confidence that another - even better one will come along soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
Yeah, thanks. I will.
@kavinitu (5535)
• India
29 Nov 17
Oh! No. Do not give up hope, you will definitely get new opportunities
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Nov 17
Yes, I know. I'm okay now.
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