How do you expect men to pamper you if you want equality

@allknowing (130064)
India
November 29, 2017 2:12am CST
There is a meet going on here in India headed by Ivanka Trump and everyone is crying hoarse that they want equality. I am sure even after getting that equality women would still expect their husbands and men around them to pamper them. Will that ever happen?
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Timea
@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
29 Nov 17
It's more complicated than just "equality". I think men and women have different needs. As a woman, I actually enjoy being different to a man.
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
29 Nov 17
That is what they are attempting to do and that is to narrow down those differences.
Judy Story
@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Nov 17
Women should be pampered because they take good care of their man in return.
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Yanzalong
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
29 Nov 17
I think it's different. Not equity in terms of love and affection.
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Fleur
@Fleura (29128)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 17
I think your question is based on a mistaken assumption. I certainly never expected anyone to pamper me!
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
29 Nov 17
There are exceptions to every rule
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
29 Nov 17
@Fleura When I say there are exceptions there could be several like you.
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Fleur
@Fleura (29128)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 17
@allknowing So are you suggesting that all women want to be treated as equals and yet also want special treatment, and I am the only one among billions who doesn't think this is unfair?
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Christina
@chrisandmark (606)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 17
I like being pampered but still want equality, maybe I should pamper my hubby more?!
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Djhoanna li
@Friendlypink (3805)
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29 Nov 17
Just a good plate of food will do. Ha ha I am a very liw maintenance girl. Are you okay with that kind of pampering or peaxe offering from your man?
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
In my country, some men are open to embracing the gender equality. I think it is better than the old days.
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Val
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
1 Dec 17
Equal rights are expected here. That doesn't mean pampering stops. I still enjoy a man opening a door for me. But general courtesy all round can be enjoyable.
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
2 Dec 17
Why should a man open the door to someone who is equal to him? (lol)
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Val
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
2 Dec 17
@allknowing exactly and I don't actually expect it. I open the door for people if I reach it first and usually receive the same courtesy from others, no matter male or female.
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Fleur
@Fleura (29128)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 17
Oh and I should add that there are many countries where women are treated like dirt, they are certainly not treated as equals nor are they pampered by any stretch of the imagination!
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
29 Nov 17
No one denies that
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DianneN
@DianneN (246838)
• United States
30 Nov 17
I'm for equal rights and support the feminism movement, but a girl is a girl. I love that pampering!
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
30 Nov 17
Wonder when women claim equality men will still feel comfortable opening the car door for them (lol)
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Val
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
1 Dec 17
@allknowing yes, many still do here. But it's not expected of men these days.
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DianneN
@DianneN (246838)
• United States
30 Nov 17
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