Love problems I kindly ask all my friends to reply to my previous discussion...

Portugal
December 9, 2017 6:46pm CST
Hi everyone There is a guy that i like and we are having problems In my previous discussion i told my story with him and i need your advices and opinions. He thinks that i dont love him after all we have been through and after all he did to me and i need to show him that he is the only one thinking that way. Please advise me
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
I know that the most complicated thing in this world is love. First of all, it is good to love but it is no longer good if you keep loving a person and forgetting that you yourself is worthy of love too. Yes, let's say you love him but the question is, is your love being reciprocated? You can tell that the person loves you as much as you do not just by words but best through actions. Sit and analyze the situation. You cannot beg love. Love is a feeling not a decission. If you think you are the only one who is fighting for love, then quit. Love yourself in a way that you know how to respect your emotions and value. "Do not cross an ocean for a person who wouldn't cross a puddle for you". And last but not the least; bet on a winning horse.
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• Portugal
10 Dec 17
Thanks so much for your precious advise you can read my story with him in the discussion i said called: i need your advices please it is a long story.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Dec 17
Have you tried sitting down with him and explaining how you feel to him?
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• Portugal
10 Dec 17
Yes we already spoke but he doesnt believe me just because after 10 monthes that he disappeared of my life i had someone. But it is normal. Who stays 10 monthes waiting that the guy she loves comes back even though he disappeared and lost complete contact with? I did that because i loved him a lot. But after he be away for 10 monthes i met someone and i had a short relationship with that person. That ended and after a few time this guy i loved first came back to my life and all the feelings came back. We were being close again until he ask me if i had someone while he was gone and i said yes i had but i didnt love him like i loved you. And its the truth. I had a relationship with the other guy and we liked each other but love is with time.but he doesnt believe he says that if i loved him i wouldnt find other guy. Doesnt make sense if he disappeared. I thought i lodt him forever. And when he came back after 10 monthes disappearing i was with open arms willing to love him again. Only a girl who loves deeply would do that dont you think?
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