Who decides what you deserve

December 30, 2017 3:57am CST
i have seen many ups and downs in life and i have come a long way. i know i have my flaws and i have made peace with it. But whats beyond my understanding is how others who have no direct connection with my life get to judge me and make comments on what i deserve and what i have to adjust with. which also makes me think sometimes am i the negative one, is it me who is never happy with what i have, is it me who is always looking at someone else's life and wondering why mine isn't perfect.
3 responses
@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
30 Dec 17
For me you are the only one deciding your fate. The other are just actors
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30 Dec 17
but some actors are important and they decide our fate too
@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
30 Dec 17
@Basicnoir if you let yourself belive that they will decide your fate. Be more confident, belive in yourself.
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• Lucknow, India
30 Dec 17
@Basicnoir no... You are the lead in your life... Others are those side characters who will give u advice but at the end you have to do what you want to do... Otherwise how will you be the lead in your own lifr
@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
30 Dec 17
Never compare your life with other people. Each one of us is unique individual. You are unique and beautiful in your own ways. Besides never let a person be the reason to make you feel down. Stay strong. Don't mind what they say. You are you and making them judge you doesn't make them rich. So stay with the thought of being happy when you are being treated negatively by not minding them. In this way, you will become the winner and they will become the loser. Have a blessed day. =)
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• Lucknow, India
30 Dec 17
You are damn right.... No one else has any business in your or as a matter of fact, anyone's life... I don't know why do people bother this much in interfering in other's life... I have faced such people and what I have learned is that the best way of getting them to shut up isn't by ignoring them, but by using Sarcasm...
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