How many boyfriends or girlfriends?

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@yanzalong (10198)
Indonesia
January 10, 2018 10:13pm CST
I am sure some of us had dates more than one boy/girlfriends before you finally decided to settle down. Honestly I had one I dated quite seriously but we broke up. There were still others I wished to go out with but I found out they were not interested in me. There was one I forgot to mention. She was really crazy about me but I became afraid of her craziness, so I tried to avoid her.
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@Courtlynn (65088)
• United States
11 Jan
I only ever went on dates with my two boyfriends, as I never dated without being in a relationship.
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
Sort of a two timer? Having two boyfriends at the same time.
@Courtlynn (65088)
• United States
11 Jan
@yanzalong never said i was with them at the same time.
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
@Courtlynn I knew it. Lol.
@sjvg1976 (18360)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan
No I never had a girl friend . I had an arranged marriage at the age of 28 years and now we are happily married from last 14 years.
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@kepweng (16794)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
11 Jan
hi what is arranged marriage ???
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@sjvg1976 (18360)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan
@kepweng we have a culture here in India as we don't date . Our parents find a girl or boy for us and we have to marry with him/ her.
• Philippines
11 Jan
@sjvg1976 wow thats weird
@Goddex (12)
11 Jan
@yugocean, such do happen. But it is possible to avoid so many hearts breaks by taking your time to assess prospective dates. If you find someone loving and good, endeavour to prayerfully hold on to such one. Goodluck on your next date!
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@yugocean (8490)
• India
11 Jan
Next date? For this I have to take permission from my wife then.
@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
It'd be impossible to do a next one unless I am ready to be at war with my wife.
@yugocean (8490)
• India
11 Jan
@yanzalong This is what can be described as "Internal Conflict"
@Mshafeeq (1557)
• Bangalore, India
17 Jan
Only one girlfriend had a long relationship and of course married to her after 4 yrs
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
17 Jan
You are a very loyal person.
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@Mshafeeq (1557)
• Bangalore, India
17 Jan
@yanzalong yes I am thanks.
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@LadyDuck (164098)
• Switzerland
11 Jan
I only had one serious relationship that lasted 3 years before meeting my husband and settling down.
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
I had one serious one not more than a year before meeting my wife.
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@LadyDuck (164098)
• Switzerland
11 Jan
@yanzalong I left my boyfriend a few month after I knew my future husband.
@cttolledo (4939)
• Philippines
11 Jan
1 boyfriend since birth and we still together .
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
Wow! What a loyal couple you two are.
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@cttolledo (4939)
• Philippines
11 Jan
@yanzalong So far yes. Just lucky maybe
@yugocean (8490)
• India
11 Jan
I never had a girlfriend, and only had arranged marriage. BTW if a girl was too much crazy about you, then why avoiding her if you cannot have one?
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
She's not the one I wanted and at the time I was dating another I am married to right now.
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@yugocean (8490)
• India
11 Jan
@yanzalong Happy marriage, good that you are with your wife.
@Tracy04 (10868)
• Malaysia
12 Jan
I always go out with my girl friends, eating, play bowling and hanging out.
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
13 Jan
Are you dating one of them seriously?
@stapllotik (1093)
• India
11 Jan
Interesting! Try you might get your perfect date here
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
12 Jan
I've found her. Thank you.
• Thane, India
11 Jan
so you regret it or happy about it?
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
I am happy cause I finally find the right one.
• Philippines
11 Jan
yes i have many flings before now i have a miserable marriage
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
Sorry to hear that.
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11 Jan
Only 3 in my life and the third was the one ??
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
You mean the third was the last one you married to?
@jstory07 (68373)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jan
So do you have a girlfriend now.
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@yanzalong (10198)
• Indonesia
11 Jan
I did. Now I am married.
12 Mar
I have only been in 3 serious relationships. The others were more a case of getting to know people and realising it wouldn't work