Dating applications.

@gaianoor (1117)
Tirana, Albania
January 12, 2018 3:17am CST
Did anyone of you tried them. I`m only on Tinder, from about 4 years, i talked to 3 guys in total, meet only 1 guy there and went only on 1 date and after that he decided not to talk to me anymore, (he said i was a very controlling person and i wanted him to do what ever i wanted - just because i suggest that he should go to the gym for his health and for the days he was feeling down the gym could helped him). The second one did the match thing Tinder does and started talking to him. He asked for my number , added me as a friend on facebook and the next day it was gone. Never talked to me anymore. The third one was the latest. We matched on Tinder. Started talking everyday. We talked about every thing about our-self and did find a lot a meeting point to each other. He never asked me about my number or things like this. We only talked on Tinder. I wrote to him, he answered back. We started a Tinder friendship. But as i know Tinder is not a Friends Find App. Anyone who goes there asks for more. And decided to tell him to go out for a coffee. I never liked to ask boys to go out with me, during the conversation i turn the things and they always end up asking me out. I knew that with hi will be the same. Did all the talking and at the end we decided to meet. Decided the day and all had to happen was the date. The date was at 7:00 pm At the day of the date, he wrote to me after 9:00 pm that he was sorry but something came out at work and did not came. I gave a short answer "Ok" and never talked to him anymore. Do you think i should use it anymore? I had only disappointing dates, made me know more about man and the way they act. But i will never get why are made that way. To the last one do you thing i should give another try. I see him on tinder, he didn`t delete me yet as a match.
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6 responses
@Starla_9 (256)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 18
I don’t use any dating apps because I am in a happy long term relationship (16years) but don’t let a few bad experiences put you off using them. You have to take the rough with the smooth, or kiss many frogs to find your prince so they say. Goodluck :)
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
I love when i read about people who have great relationships. So happy for you. I will try to find someone since it`s better in two, but its really hard.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
12 Jan 18
most guys on tinder are just immature. relationships start off better when they are founded on a friendship first.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
14 Jan 18
@gaianoor - what? He cant start off as a new friend?
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
Yeah i`m getting that. It`s difficult to me to start a relationship with a friendship base. I prefer always new people.
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
14 Jan 18
@Plethos most of them can’t
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@JaneApril (334)
• Philippines
12 Jan 18
I used tagged app before, met two men (not at the same time, and both were just friends).. Was a really good experience to me, a good memory, I'm still friends with them
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
Never worked for me.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
12 Jan 18
No not yet, I registered Tagged but never had any serious talking or flirting with anyone. But of course, I think there's no such bad thing about dating sites, only the person who ask something which you cannot give.
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
For me they never worked. My friend says i`m the difficult one.But i see it in other ways. I just know what i want and don`t wanna loose time for me and for him looking for something that is not there.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
12 Jan 18
@Strawberry18 he he relax.
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
12 Jan 18
Don't try to change the person. He will find you irritating
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• India
13 Jan 18
@gaianoor ok I respect your point of view
@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
I wasn`t trying to change him. I was telling him my experience and how it worked for me.I was just giving him ideas what to do. He could have choose to do or not. I like only to share my experience and if it worked why not to help others.
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
12 Jan 18
just try and try until you found someone.
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
12 Jan 18
@gaianoor if you found here you feel it just go with the flow and you find the right one for you just wait until its come.
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
@resukill22 yeah i will wait, i have plenty of time.
@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
12 Jan 18
Yeah i will try again. But sometimes it gets frustrating to get to know new people every time.
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