Should I forgive her?

@BabeSays (8576)
Mauritius
January 24, 2018 3:59am CST
This morning one of my college classmate sent me a request on facebook. I'll name her X.The thing is that we never like ever talked to each other. I had a few friends from school who went to the same college. So X told all my school friends that they should stay away from me because I was going to spread my epilepsy to them and they will get sick. I remember borrowing a t-shirt from my school friend who attending the same college for sport day. She was nice and gave me her tshirt. When I return it to her, she said I could keep it. A few years later the same friend walked to me and told me that X told her if she would have wore that tshirt she will get epilepsy and that's she didn't take her tshirt back. And that is when I learn that X is the reason why everybody disliked me and lookes at me differently. X did not send me any email saying she was sorry or anything. She just talking normally like hey how are you etc etc. I didn't reply her nor accepted her request yet. Do you think I should forgive her and accept her request? Or do you think she just wants to spy on me? What should I do?
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10 responses
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51537)
• Philippines
24 Jan 18
I would probably ask as to why is she talking to you again? I wouldn't talk to her if I were you. She gave a dangerous scar in your life, I think if you want a happy life get those people who caused you negative vibes away from you. Maybe you can forgive her but you don't have to tell her and just move on with your life.
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
Right. I don't need to tell her but I'll just forgive her.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51537)
• Philippines
25 Jan 18
@BabeSays Yeah, just move on with your life. There are 8 billion people out there I'm sure you can find new friends some where.
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 18
@Letranknight2015 You're right dear. I agree with you.
Shasta
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
24 Jan 18
Forgive and move on. Without her. She's either intentionally stupid or she might be like the deranged girl in "Friends til the End".
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
LOL your comment friends till the end. Forgive her but no thanks I'll pass your friend request.
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Nawsheen
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
I will never accept a friend request from someone who has caused me so much harm. I see X as a backstabber and I will not want her in my life again. That's what I would have done if I were in such a situation. I don't see X as a friend.
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
I think you are right. Is my school friend wouldn't have told me, I'd never know. Thanks dear. Actually that's what I'm gonna do.
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prashu
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
24 Jan 18
May be anything , just ignore her. Just forget about the person.best thing we could do to ourselves.
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
Absolutly right my friend.
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Thelma
@thelme55 (76481)
• Germany
24 Jan 18
I don't think that is a good idea to accept her request. Of course you can forgive her but be careful of her. Epilepsy is not a contagious illness.
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Thelma
@thelme55 (76481)
• Germany
24 Jan 18
@BabeSays yes, the best is to ignore it
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
I am having the same feeling. Yes it is not but she spread rumors about it. Anyways I better ignore her request I guess.
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What'sUp_Cel
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
24 Jan 18
It's really hard to forgive and forget especially when they have done something horrible to you. Have you tried to confront her to clear the issue?
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What'sUp_Cel
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
24 Jan 18
@BabeSays Are you still seeing each other? If not maybe she just wants to catch up with you or settle the issue. If she still bullies you, you can block her anytime you want.
Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
@rheicel No we never meet after college she is in Italy now I checked her profile. She is married and lives there.
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
No I haven't. She never talked to me when we studied together. And suddently she sent friend request and talking normally asking me details of my life as if we were friends.
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130091)
• India
25 Jan 18
I would just ignore such requests. As they say, when in doubt leave it out
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 18
You are right, I agree.
Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
24 Jan 18
Ya forgive him/her . Let it be... Whatever happens just forget it as maybe is regret for his acts..
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Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
24 Jan 18
@BabeSays ohkk anyways accept her.... And people have a habit of speaking the sh*t so why to mood off for others who don't matter in your life.
Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
I don't think so. If she regrets she shouldn't appologized but she did not. I might forgive but do not want her in my life.
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Kiran Ghimire
@KKkiran (48)
•
24 Jan 18
You should
Tamara Ash
@tamaraash89 (268)
• Saint Lucia
24 Jan 18
Wow, some people can be so ignorant and insensitive. I surely would not accept her friend request, but I would probably send a private message explaining why I have my reservations about her and how she hurt me. Be polite and straightforward and don’t allow her to manipulate you the way she did your other friends.
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Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Jan 18
Yep unbelieveable. That's what I'm gonna do. Ignore her friend request.