What after?

firegirl
@ivanad (21)
Barcelona, Spain
February 14, 2018 3:42pm CST
Valentine day [sigh], on social media tons of pictures from couples in love, and I freshly divorced nothing to say about it, not like I did that when I had a reason but still feels bad.Since recent times I start thinking what after divorce ??I haven't been with anyone else for 15 years, with painful divorce, small kid, lost love and unforgiving time, confidence is really not my best friend.I'm in the process with starting my new life, independent and free and let's not say that I'm satisfied but I'm not unsatisfied, but what about love ? Recently I had a situation that person starts smiling at me, you know in that way that says "I like you" and me, a woman in late 30, start blushing and behaving like a 13-year-old girl.Is it going to be forever like this?Let's say that I'm not looking for Mr.Right but wanting a romantic relationship I guess is normal [?] after some time. Does anyone have a similar story and how to get back in the game?
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@Icydoll (20148)
• India
14 Feb
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@ivanad (21)
• Barcelona, Spain
15 Feb
thank you
@dodoazo (19720)
• Philippines
16 Feb
I have been married for 46 years. My wife and I were able to hurdle trials and challenges in life and we came off conqueror. In your case, what's your purpose of having a "companion"'and not suffer again?
@ivanad (21)
• Barcelona, Spain
16 Feb
You are a happy man Mr.Dodo.For many years i always found the reason to fight for ...But at the end didnt have a streanght any more.I am not in process where I'm searching for something but eventually the time will come
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@dodoazo (19720)
• Philippines
17 Feb
@ivanad Yes, the day will come. Hope it would the right person to take care of you and your family.
@ivanad (21)
• Barcelona, Spain
19 Feb
@dodoazo I would prefer to find someone who will walk next to me as equal, support me as I support him, to be for me as I am for him, but that day will not come soon since my divorce has past just behind the corner
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15 Feb
Thank you so much for this information
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