Her Boo

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@Kandae11 (53698)
February 15, 2018 11:09am CST
I have heard of age appropriateness in the way one dresses, but I never thought it would apply to terms of endearment as well. I was listening to a Valentine's Day program yesterday - and the host expressed surprise when an elderly lady referred to her husband as her Boo. He seemed to think that Boo was a bit "young" for the couple. In my view people who are in love - regardless of their age should feel free to address each other with whatever terms of endearment they choose. Of course , I doubt I would ever call my significant other - my Boo - but the choice is theirs. What do you think? Do you have a special term of endearment for your loved one?
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@Morleyhunt (21746)
• Canada
15 Feb 18
I don't think there is an expiry date on endearments.
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@vandana7 (99057)
• India
15 Feb 18
How else do you differentiate.
@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
@Morleyhunt - - There shouldn't be - providing the love hasn't expired.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
15 Feb 18
I agree with you. Age doesn't matter to address their loved ones. Of course i have a special term..
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@vandana7 (99057)
• India
15 Feb 18
That is oh so personal to comment upon.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
15 Feb 18
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
@prashu228 - of course you do.
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@vandana7 (99057)
• India
15 Feb 18
I have no issues with what people wear, or how they talk, as long as they are not hurting anybody and are not planning to scam anybody.
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@vandana7 (99057)
• India
15 Feb 18
@Kandae11 If a person is comfortable in something, he or she must have reason to be.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
People tend to get too much into the unimportant aspects of other people's business.
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@rebelann (111354)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Feb 18
I have never heard the term "Boo" used for endearment although I have cried out BOO on halloween when I wanted to try to scare someone I knew.
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@rebelann (111354)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Feb 18
The young hispanic couples I sometimes see in grocery stores use Mexican terms which I don't understand but I've never heard them use Boo @Kandae11
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@rebelann (111354)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Feb 18
It's probably popular in Florida or places like that @Kandae11
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
I have heard younger folk using the term - including my son.
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@RasmaSandra (73920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Feb 18
I think many people pick up terms of endearments as the years go by and just get used to them. Is that you and your hubby in the photo.
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@RasmaSandra (73920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Feb 18
@Kandae11 well you can imagine why I would think that.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
Sorry to laugh. That is a pixaby picture and I am unmarried.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
@RasmaSandra Please tell me why.
@1creekgirl (40640)
• United States
15 Feb 18
Usually sweetie, honey, or baby for my husband.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
If I had a significant other I would probably call him honey or love.
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@shaggin (71676)
• United States
16 Feb 18
I think it's fine whatever they want to call each other. It does seem like a very young generation right now that calls their boyfriend boo. It is not a term I care for so I don't use it. I call my boyfriend babe. I try not to use the same name for the guys I am with to the ones before them. My late husband I called hun. I don't recall what I called the others.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
16 Feb 18
My ex started showing his true colors so soon, I had no chance to call him anything nice.
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@shaggin (71676)
• United States
16 Feb 18
Lol that is really funny but so awful at the same time!
@allknowing (130269)
• India
15 Feb 18
When I saw you title I thought there was a typo and a b at the end was missing I do not think anyone will call their loved one by their real name.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
16 Feb 18
@Kandae11 The other came to mind
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@Kandae11 (53698)
16 Feb 18
A ' B' at the end could mean two things (1) a foolish or stupid person - and the other I certainly won't be writing about.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
16 Feb 18
@allknowing I thought so.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Feb 18
no just plain ole Mike
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
Mike already knows you love him.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Feb 18
@Kandae11 yes he does or else.lol
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
16 Feb 18
I think terms of endearment are appropriate at any age! My husband and I have special names for each other, too.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
16 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Lol! I can't spell them and there are many. I call him Wooz and he calls me Nubbs.
@Kandae11 (53698)
16 Feb 18
@DianneN Those are too cute.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
16 Feb 18
Which you won't tell us of course.
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@just4him (307895)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Feb 18
I think that's sweet. I'm glad for the couple.
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@just4him (307895)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Feb 18
@Kandae11 So, do I. It's wonderful.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
I always feel happy when I see older couples in love. especially when they've being together for many years.
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@JudyEv (326545)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Feb 18
I don't have a special term but surely people should be able to call their loved ones whatever they like. You can start off as a young couple with special terms for each other. At a certain age, are you suddenly supposed to come up with something more 'age appropriate'? That host needs to think things through a bit more.
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@JudyEv (326545)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 18
@Kandae11 With people like that, I can't wait to see what they're like when they are old.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
This isn't the first time he has come up with something silly.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
16 Feb 18
@JudyEv They don't realize the clock is ticking - and they'll get there someday.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Feb 18
Yes, we have. And it's weird. I call him Ngas and he will call me Ngas. That is our endearment.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Feb 18
@Kandae11 It means tough.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
@JustBhem Okay.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
Any special meaning to the name?
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@YrNemo (20261)
18 Feb 18
I call the bigger human ones 'hey you!' & the tiny gorgeous ones 'hi darling', 'my gorgeous' etc
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@Kandae11 (53698)
18 Feb 18
"Hey you"! - nothing nicer?
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@Kandae11 (53698)
28 Feb 18
@YrNemo That is awesome!. Thank you for the info.
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@YrNemo (20261)
28 Feb 18
@Kandae11 I have to let you know that I just read some books about the old Indian culture in the early 20 century. That was how the wife addressing the husband (to avoid calling his name), a sign of respect!. I was very surprised. but then again, that book was written by an English writer so she could be wrong. I am not Indian, so I can't tell . (But what I said above, true .)
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@LadyDuck (459916)
• Switzerland
15 Feb 18
Yes I have and this is how I call him since the day we were married and I am not going to change only because we are aging.
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@LadyDuck (459916)
• Switzerland
16 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Younger folks know nothing. Real love does not fade with the age.
@Kandae11 (53698)
15 Feb 18
Some younger folk actually believe that certain feelings vanish with age.
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• United States
16 Feb 18
I don't have a problem with an older person referring to their significant other as "Boo". Nicknames and terms of endearment shouldn't have age restrictions
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@Kandae11 (53698)
17 Feb 18
Some members of the younger generation feel that "boo" is theirs.
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 18
Some people have nick names for their partners and I don't see any problem with that at all. We don't use any terms like that ourselves but many people do. So what let them be who they want to be! A very dear and special friend of mine told me once I was and still am the only person allowed to call her Mags. No one else can that is my special term for her. Her name is Margaret but everyone calls her Maggie. Her face tells a story if anyone else dare call her that and they know never to call her that again!
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@Kandae11 (53698)
17 Feb 18
You are very lucky then.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Feb 18
that is a sweet term of endearment coming from an elderly to her love one.
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@Kandae11 (53698)
17 Feb 18
Yes it sure is.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
16 Feb 18
I've always struggled with a term of endearment when I was with someone. To me they sound so corny. Esp. Bae and Boo ugh no
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@Kandae11 (53698)
17 Feb 18
You're a bit like me.
@porwest (78759)
• United States
15 May 18
I just call my wife Sweetie, and she calls me Schmoopie. lol
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@Kandae11 (53698)
15 May 18
That's so cute - I like both names.
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