Picking me up at work
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
February 18, 2018 5:03pm CST
I find black guys to be desperate and a turn off (90% of them).
This guy at my work is the exacr reason i say that.
He came in and start staring at me like i'd stare at a chocolate ice cream 
He starts talking like how he knows me. He starts how he wants to move to this area (mind you dont live that area i drive 45 mins). He starts so if you live alone. Sorry buddy but because you want a woman to pay and hold your hand.
So as he's trying to get me to give my number. I go i'm sure my girlfriemd would love to show you the town
He starts talking like how he knows me. He starts how he wants to move to this area (mind you dont live that area i drive 45 mins). He starts so if you live alone. Sorry buddy but because you want a woman to pay and hold your hand.
So as he's trying to get me to give my number. I go i'm sure my girlfriemd would love to show you the town 3 people like this
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Some black men are so sexy and so are some white and Asian lol I've never dated outside my race but it's simply because they are rare to our area. I think I would take it as a huge compliment if a man walked in and looked at me like I was a chocolate ice cream. I really like chocolate ice cream But him hitting on you I can see why it could make you uncomfortable. You don't need a stranger knowing you live alone!
But him hitting on you I can see why it could make you uncomfortable. You don't need a stranger knowing you live alone!2 people like this
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Feb 18
I just found issues with this race and making situations uncomfortable. I guess i disnt explain it right. I have dated outside my race and this behaviour actually makes them desperate and gross how they come across. Why does where i live, who i live with or what i do in my free time in 10 minutes of a conversation?. He also stood staring at me like im suppose to be weak in the knees. Im like 
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
19 Feb 18
@ricki_911 - all this time i thought you were a male. Now i know.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Feb 18
@Plethos 
dont we all gender neutral now or whatever the fad is. I'm all girl over here
dont we all gender neutral now or whatever the fad is. I'm all girl over here2 people like this
@thislittlepennyearns (58140)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
18 Feb 18
I hate to sound mean, or rude but I feel like the fact that you call out a certain race of male out, could be handled a little more sensitively.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Feb 18
I work alone and feel uncomfortable. But i can say this has been my issue. Why does one need to know if i live alone? Staring at me like a piece of meat?. I can't say i have had issues wirh any other type of race. But a friend has issues with a different race. But thats one way not to pick up a girl to stare at her inappropriately and creep her out. I had to call a friend to escort me out of work. That is how unconforrable and creeped out.
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@BarBaraPrz (45488)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
19 Feb 18
@ricki_911 Was he hanging around a long time?
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Feb 18
@BarBaraPrz He kept coming back and sitring beside my car. I live in a rural area so nothing around. He disappeared when ny friend pulled up.
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