Lower Your Dementia Risk by Socializing with Others

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Laguna Woods, California
February 18, 2018 6:53pm CST
Did you know you could lower your risk of dementia simply by getting out of the house and doing something enjoyable with other people? Socializing is an essential component in your efforts to continue to think clearly and stay healthy for your entire life. As part of the brain health class I am taking, I have learned that diet, exercise and sleep are all important in reducing our risk of dementia and Alzheimer's. Another important factor is socializing! Many senior citizens become isolated as they age. They may lose the ability to drive, some of their friends and their spouse may have died, and socializing may become more difficult. However, it is worth the effort. Isolation is linked to increased rates of anxiety, depression, dementia and early death. How Can You Become more Social? Visit friends as much as you can, and call them when you cannot visit. Stay in touch. Volunteer at your place of worship, the local school, your community hospital and any other charity which you care about. Well known actress and comedian, Betty White, volunteers for the Cat Sanctuary in Laguna Beach. You are never to old to find a way to help someone. Take a class in almost anything and get to know the other students ... whether it is water aerobics, yoga, photography, computer classes or anything else which interests you. It is great way to make friends. Join a club ... book club, dinner club, quilting club, movie club or anything else which sounds fun. MeetUp. com is a great way to find clubs in your community. If you can't find a club, start your own. Find a Senior Center in your neighborhood. They have classes, lunches, dances and parties, with something going on almost all day long. If you do these things consistently the rest of your life, you are likely to live longer, think clearer and give meaning to your remaining years. Bottom line: Put aside the computer, call a friend, go out to lunch, take a class, have some fun, and laugh! Your brain will thank you!
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• United States
19 Feb 18
hmm, since i aint got no friends any longer, can't drive i reckon i'll jest succumb to such :( 'nless ya can consider gettin' out with the ponies 'n other critters 's socializin'? aint been able to do much 'f that neither.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@crazyhorseladycx - Yes! Animals are very helpful in reducing dementia risk, along with the things I have posted in my other articles about diet, exercise and other factors which reduce our risk of dementia.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
19 Feb 18
Well surely it counts a little bit to socialise on sites like this? It helps to keep the brain active in my opinion. All your points are good though.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@jaboUK - The same thought has occurred to me. I like MyLot and learning from people in other countries. I even like to socialize with my family and friends on Facebook. It keeps me in touch with people I rarely see.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Lots of great ideas here on how to socialize more. Since I am a stay at home mom I rarely see anyone in person. My socialization consists of mylot and Facebook.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
19 Feb 18
I have friends but we are all busy in our own lives I rarely see anyone. My son does cyber school so I am home with him all day. My daughter is in public school. They are 13 and 10. I won't be able to be a stay at home mom forever so when I work I may get a little more socialization. I am so shy though I think I want to do factory work where I don't have to deal with customers etc.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@shaggin - MyLot and Facebook are good places to start. As your kids get older, they will draw you out and you'll get to meet the mothers of their friends.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 18
@shaggin - Yes, I understand that people can be very shy. Even if you just connect with one or two other people and make an effort to see them or speak to them on the phone regularly, that can make a big difference in your happiness and mental clarity.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
19 Feb 18
The important is to keep your brain active, it does not matter how.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
20 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane The right exercise is important. Those in their late 70's who go jogging most of the time create their own problems.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@LadyDuck - Yes, it is very important to keep our brains active in one way or another ... and keep our bodies active, too!
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 18
@LadyDuck - I have noticed that people often cause their own problems in a lot of areas, usually because they make poor decisions or are unwilling to accept reasonable limitations. People jogging in their late 70's is a good example of that.
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@moffittjc (118449)
• Gainesville, Florida
21 Feb 18
I have started to socialize less and less as I get older because I realized people are idiots and I hate dealing with stupid people! lol Seriously though, I do need to get out and socialize more. I used to be one of those people who was the life of the party, but now I don't go out much anymore, I choose to stay home and spend time with my family. It also doesn't help that I work two jobs and I'm always exhausted!
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@moffittjc (118449)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane I think another part of it is that as we get older and more mature, we realize who our true friends are, and then we tend to focus on them and not on the masses.
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• Laguna Woods, California
23 Feb 18
@moffittjc - Yes, I agree. Socializing is not a matter of how many friends you have, but the quality of the connections to the people we spend time with.
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@Maria24 (2661)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Wow thanks for the information. I'm not that social around people
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@Maria24 - This is a good reason to start!
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@Maria24 (2661)
• United States
19 Feb 18
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• Pamplona, Spain
19 Feb 18
Great to get out when you can and if not you can be on places like this or read about them. Listening to music reduces anxiety also.
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• Pamplona, Spain
20 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane I listen to a lot of piano and guitar and violin music to calm down after hectic days.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 18
Yes, listening to music is a nice way to reduce anxiety.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 - That is a great idea.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I do agree that it needs them to socialize. It could bring back the old memories.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
25 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane I do agree with you. We need to do this.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@Shavkat - It is good for us all to make a habit of socializing our entire lives. Then, we will be in good shape as we age.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
very informative and very true.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@rakski - Thank you. I am glad you have found this information helpful.
@sallypup (57897)
• Centralia, Washington
19 Feb 18
In order to get much of what you suggest, I will need to move. I may be doing that within 5 years, soon as hubby's job disappears. He retires and our main ties to this community will be as consumers. The senior center does not have very many classes that I would willingly sit through so that's out. Right now my main social time is with folks like you. I am not a church goer and don't intend to start just cause I need to socialize.
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• Eugene, Oregon
19 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane @sallypup has too many animals she says and loves them all. I can't blame her.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@sallypup - Perhaps you could move to a retirement community, similar to the one where our member @JamesHxstatic lives. They have lots of social events and activities like ping-pong. Anything like that is very beneficial.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@JamesHxstatic - Animals can also do a lot to help people feel needed, so there is a great deal of benefit to them.
@just4him (306354)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Feb 18
I can see how that would be effective.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 18
@just4him - There is a lot of good information in this class about how to improve our lives in general, not just how to prevent dementia.
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@just4him (306354)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane I can see that.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
19 Feb 18
I think ill just stay somewhat anti-social. I enjoy talking to myself.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@Plethos - Talking to yourself can be very satisfying! At least you are not likely to get into political arguments!
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
19 Feb 18
@DeborahDiane - thats what id like to think also
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
23 Feb 18
Very informative post! That is so true about socialization being so important as we grow older and throughout life. Although medications have been introduced to treat the disease nothing replaces exercise and keeping the mind sharp through social interaction.
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• Laguna Woods, California
24 Feb 18
You are so right. No medication can make up for not taking care of ourselves.
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
25 Feb 18
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
19 Feb 18
Thanks for the info :)
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 18
@houda28 - You are welcome. I am happy to share what I am learning.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 18
Oh no! Do I have to put aside my computer? But joking aside, I can easily understand how staying isolated would not contribute to good mental health.
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 Feb 18
@JudyEv - Ha ha! I was feeling a little guilty as a wrote that on my computer! However, people do need to get out and spend time with other people. I know you and your husband do that, so I think you are both in good shape from the social aspect!
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