And just like that...

By Toni
@toniganzon (72285)
Philippines
February 18, 2018 7:27pm CST
Ting, ting, ting! My phone kept making that sound yesterday, the 18th of February from 6am to 11pm last night. Happy 14th was the greeting, a subtle way of reminding me of my age. I had dinner with 19 important people in my life and just like that, my real life now begins. New adventure to look forward to, new experiences to learn, and hopefully more people to share them with. I'm forty, still flirty, and of course thriving!
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@just4him (306352)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Feb 18
Happy Birthday. I hope you have a wonderful year.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I'm expecting wonderful years till I turn 45 or maybe 50! Thank you Valerie!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@just4him Because I don't know what's coming when I reach that age. I have to make a new adventure depending on how I am when I reach that age.
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@just4him (306352)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon Why only until then? I'm having wonderful years and I'll be 65 in a few months. I do have health issues, but that doesn't mean I'm not having a wonderful day.
• United States
19 Feb 18
Happy Birthday, Toni! Did you reach your bucket list you had awhile back?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
forty things before forty? I'm supposed to be doing my photo journal for that today as I failed to log in for several days now due to my hectic schedule. But I believe I did!
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• United States
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon Yes, the 40 things before 40, I believe it was. Yay, exciting you accomplished the list! Hope you get to do your photo journal soon.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@infatuatedbby Yeah, but I don't think I could do them today. Will try to finish the photo journal very soon though or before the month of February ends.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Feb 18
There's a one-liner that says Life begins at forty. I only get to learn what it really means when we attended the anticipated mass. The priest says it's because at 40, a person is expected to be renewing his/her spirituality or deepen her relationship with God. Yes, I noticed, that when I turned 40, I became so prayerful. I take delight in my morning and evening prayer. It's time to talk with God, for me. By the way, Belated Happy Birthday Toni! I know you had a very happy one.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
20 Feb 18
It's sad that it would take 40 years for people to deepen their relationship with God. I'm actually disappointed that the priest said that. Thank you for the greetings.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
21 Feb 18
@SIMPLYD And some people in their 40s just don't seem to care.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Feb 18
@toniganzon Well, it's not most people. I can understand why the priest said that. Some people when younger seems not into deep relationship with God yet. They are young and carefree that is why. But we can instill deep relationship with God to our children at an early age though.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Happy birthday, Dearheart... even if I am just a bit late in wishing it to you.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I can sense your sincerity all the way from where you are. Thank you from the bottom of my 40 year old beating heart.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@DaddyEvil Mine is healthy, it'll keep on beating for many more years! I just hope nobody plots to murder me any time soon.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon You know, I am very happy to know a heart that is 40 years old can still beat... I was getting nervous that mine might quit before I reach that age. (grinning at you!)
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@moffittjc (118458)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Feb 18
Happy Birthday Toni! You meant I was talking to you all that time and you didn't tell me it was your birthday? Shame on you! Haha, just kidding about that last part, but I hope you have a wonderful birthday celebration and enjoy your special day! Did you get what you wished for on your birthday?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
Come to think of it, I haven't made a wish yet. Bring me a cake with a candle on it so I can make my wish. While I was talking to you, it was no longer my birthday in my part of the world and time...remember, I'm the girl from the future.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
20 Feb 18
@moffittjc Well, last night, the 19th, I got this cake from one of our partner companies. So I lit the candle and made a wish. The only person who sent me a gift was my friend from S. Korea. She sent me two boxes of sheet mask and one ampoule. She knew what I need.
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@moffittjc (118458)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Feb 18
@toniganzon A wish I could have brought you a cake with a candle on it. Did you ever get a chance to make a birthday wish and blow out your candle? Did you get any special gifts for your birthday?
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Feb 18
Happy Birthday! The best days of your life will begin now,
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I believe so ! Thank you so much.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
you are living proof of someone who not only survived, but thrived! happy birthday, toni!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
Thank you, really appreciate your sincere greeting.
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• Philippines
19 Feb 18
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
19 Feb 18
Belated Happy Birthday to you. It is an important step to go from 30s into the 40s. In Italy we say "life starts at forty", so now you can start enjoying life at its full.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
Same here, we say life begins at 40. However, seeing how people get younger and younger these days instead of getting older, some of us say life begins at 50 now and no longer 40.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@LadyDuck A lot of people here at that age are still very highly active and still doing what they enjoy doing. You couldn't even guess they're in their 50s because of their physical appearance and their activities. My 62 year old friend can go shopping at the mall with us the whole day without complaining. She's even slimmer and sexier than me. She still dances ballroom. She used to compete in dance sports internationally. Her only complain these days is she's getting fat when her waistline is just 22 and mine is 25.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon I have to disagree, being 40 is great, once you turn 50 it's no more the same kind of life.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
19 Feb 18
Happy belated birthday. For me my forties were the best decade of my life. My body was still fit and I'd acquired some wisdom. I still enjoy my life though, I'm 78 now.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I want to be as happy as you when you were in your forties! I had a successful 30s and I've accomplished so much in my life. I hope I could do the same in my 40s.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
19 Feb 18
@jaboUK The acquisition of wisdom is a good thing. Unfortunately, not all people get it. :-(
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Happy belated birthday to you!!!! 40 is the new 30!!!!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I thought 40 is the new 20!
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon Just wishful thinking!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Well happy birthday, glad you enjoyed your day
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
Thank you Cindy. I usually don't celebrate my birthday but my family and friends insisted on having that dinner party as we only become 40 once in our life.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
19 Feb 18
This is true and you were probably due for a celebration too.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@cintol The last time I had a big celebration was the I was 18. And it was not my wish to celebrate either. My sisters insisted on that one.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 18
Good for you. Maybe the best part of your life be just beginning.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I thought when I turned 30 that was it. The best years of my life was now in the 30s I thought. Now I have to make a new one to make it even greater. I've accomplished so much in my 30s I wish to double it in my 40s.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@JudyEv Right I've dealt with rough issues since I was very young. it has made me tough. When I became a teenager, I lost my parents. And that was 3 days after I turned 13. And many more things happened after that. It has made me into what I am now. So I hope God wouldn't throw anything to me that I couldn't handle in my life.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon You go for it. The years will be as good as you make them - although sometimes other issues can have a pretty big impact.
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@kobesbuddy (74591)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Feb 18
Happy Birthday, Toni:)
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
Thank you Kharla!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@kobesbuddy Thanks again for making me feel special.
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@kobesbuddy (74591)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon You are very welcome, special lady!
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@dgobucks226 (34368)
12 Mar 18
Didn't want to just say Happy Birthday, Toni So, here is a Birthday brainy quote I found from Buddy Valastro, "Cakes are special. Every birthday, every celebration ends with something sweet, a cake, and people remember. It's all about the memories." Hope this response is long enough. Sometimes posts can leave us with only a few words to convey our feelings. This is one of those posts. So, to your continuing adventures. Hope your day was a great one!!!!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Mar 18
Thanks DB! Your greetings seems to be the most sincere. Really do appreciate it.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
13 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 Yep, age is just a number, but I'm taking care of myself now more than I did when I was in my 20s. Don't want to look like I'm in my 60s all of a sudden!
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@dgobucks226 (34368)
13 Mar 18
@toniganzon My pleasure! Age is just a number they say and you have the right attitude about it...
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Feb 18
you are still quite young believe me and you look even younger
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon i only think like in my 20's myself. feel 90 and look it too
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
@bunnybon7 I don't think you do.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I don't feel old. But time flies too quickly. I feel like I'm still in my 20s.
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@Orson_Kart (6114)
• United Kingdom
19 Feb 18
You are quite possibly the most beautiful 40 year old on mylot, if not the planet. I am way past 40 and still waiting for life to begin again. Maybe it's because 60 is the new 40 and I was caught in between? I do know I flirt a lot less than I did. Which is lucky for all you lovely ladies.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
Well thank you Orson. Is 60 the new 40? I still have 20 more years to start my life then!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
20 Feb 18
@Orson_Kart let's hope you and I are still here when that time comes.
• United Kingdom
19 Feb 18
@toniganzon I am hoping so, but by the time you get there I'll be nearly 80 and probably not here.
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@Metsrock69 (3492)
• United States
4 Mar 18
Happy belated birthday. 40 is a great milestone. sounded like a great time
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
I still don't feel like I've reached that age. Thanks.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
@Metsrock69 Now that's the attitude.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
19 Feb 18
Lordy, Lordy look who's 40. Happy Birthday, have a good one.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
20 Feb 18
Thank you Sue. Excited for what 40s life has to offer me.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
23 Feb 18
@HazySue True.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
23 Feb 18
@toniganzon I was too. Age never has mattered to me. It's not how old you are it's what you have in your heart.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
21 Feb 18
Well great fun for you- you have a wonderful attitude.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
21 Feb 18
Thank you Mary. I try to be cool about it as I can.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
22 Feb 18
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
22 Feb 18
@toniganzon Why not? You're still young and now you're wise as well-------hahaha!
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• Trinidad And Tobago
24 Feb 18
Happy Birthday and may you have many many more. Glad your life is now starting. What a wonderful way to start. Do you have any plans as to where you are going?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
24 Feb 18
@Gita17112016 Not going anywhere far for that adventure to happen. Could be a new business venture. That one is still considered an adventure.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
24 Feb 18
Not going anywhere.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
24 Feb 18
@toniganzon What! I thought you said 'new adventures'. Are you waiting for them to come to you?