I was betrayed

@tom_view (6415)
Kolkata, India
February 22, 2018 11:37am CST
Few days I met a girl on Facebook.We were having nice conversation between us.We both shared each others' number.She was just like the girl I wanted, my dream girl. I wanted to call her,talk to her but she always rejected the proposal.I found some mismatch.During this conversation,we shared many stories,we shared our earlier relationships and many other things.I had fallen for her.I was just about to propose her.Suddenly I decided to relook the conversation and found a strange thinge.The conversation was much more experienced than a 19 year girl could ever have. I also found something wrong.A 19 year old ,lovely girl cannot be such emotionally strong but weak in typing messages,that's too in Facebook. Then I look into the matter and found that it was the Girls' mother who was chatting with me,initially it was the girl but later her mother was chatting with me beside the name of the girl.When I found that ,I felt terribly bad.I felt down,emotionally betrayed..
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• Cuddalore, India
22 Feb 18
I hope you will get right one soon.I know about this bad experience very well.some of my friends even chatted with a boy ,thinking that she was a girl .most terrible experience I think so . Have a great day
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
22 Feb 18
a mother faking his identity is terrible
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• Cuddalore, India
22 Feb 18
@tom_view yes first time I am hearing ,a mother of same girl is chatting .
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
22 Feb 18
@Lignitecityabishek96 i also shocked
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
23 Feb 18
That's the downside of talking to someone online. You don't really know who you're talking to. I'm not sure what the intention of the mother was for doing so. It's normal you feel betrayed. But at least you are lucky that didn't last long before you discovered what's really going on. Lesson learned: don't fall for someone that fast.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
24 Feb 18
@tom_view You were able to get back to your senses.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
23 Feb 18
i was lucky.
@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
26 Feb 18
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@suripunj (956)
• New Delhi, India
22 Feb 18
what is wrong in continuing with her mother, virtual is virtual no matter mother or daughter.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
22 Feb 18
i fall for her,the daughter.
@LeaPea2417 (36536)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Mar 18
I am sorry that happened. The Mother should have revealed her identity to you.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
16 Mar 18
yes.she should have.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
22 Feb 18
How long had you been talking to her? Why would her mother interfere like that, I hope that you can move on from this. Easier to find someone closer to you that you can talk to in person, that way you know where you stand and who you are really with.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
22 Feb 18
i hope i can.
@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
22 Feb 18
The mother must have been upset with her daughter for talking to a man online. She was probably trying to see if you were for real and what you and her were talking about. She was probably just a concerned mother looking out for her daughter. Doesn't make it right. She should have been honest right up front. She was wrong to do that to you. I can understand your feeling of betrayal.
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
22 Feb 18
@tom_view no for sure.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
22 Feb 18
yes.she should not have faked her identity.
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@akalinus (40688)
• United States
23 Feb 18
Don't even thinking about proposing to a girl you never met. It is good you found out though.
@akalinus (40688)
• United States
23 Feb 18
@tom_view It was not nice of the mother to pretend that she was the daughter.
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@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
23 Feb 18
@akalinus yes.she did a crime.
@tom_view (6415)
• Kolkata, India
23 Feb 18
i will never do it.