Don't These Indifferent People Irritate and Frustrate You?
By AKRao24
@AKRao24 (27424)
India
February 22, 2018 12:46pm CST
This is site where every member has right to post anything!
People here they know that we are quite sensitive and attend their discussions if they are pertaining to their day to day life problems!
I am also one of you and attend many such discussions which as per my hearts's decisions requires my sincere advise!
I advice or cheer them up or give some helpful hint , in expectation that I would get some feed back!
But I am really feel bad and frustrated that I have met many people here without responding to the members who have attended them they are keeping on further posts ...some times in continuation of previous posts!
Have you ever had such experience and if yes...what do you do with such persons? Thanks!
Please respond to know how you console yourself under such circumstances!
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26 responses
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Feb 18
This is not expecting some thing from some one! Just imagine you are talking with some one and expressing yourself to him and he/she is looking at some other thing instead of listening you! what feeling would you have at that time dear friend @Shortail? Thanks!
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@Lignitecityabishek96 (7110)
• Cuddalore, India
22 Feb 18
You have to accept those should not expect in return.Try posting as many you want.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
This very simple thing I am saying here dear @Lignitecityabishek96
1. I Respond to a discussion.
2. Some other members also responing.
3. The person who initiated the discussion thinks that it is but natural for him to get
the responses, so he never respond you back.
4. Instead he starts another discussion to get more responses.
5. This attitude of the member who initiated the discussion makes me sick!
Hope now you got my point dear friend! Have a nice time and God bless!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Feb 18
No, I differ here this is a 'Take it granted' attitude...we should oppose this! Not even a sinle person was reciprocated before posting the next discussion in continuation of previous post! Are you getting me dear @Lignitecityabishek96? Thanks!
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@Lignitecityabishek96 (7110)
• Cuddalore, India
23 Feb 18
@AKRao24 I can't able to get your view.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Feb 18
I am not sure..I need to see the profiles! I will come back after completing my home work dear friend @april_ang ! Thanks!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Feb 18
Usually I don't have the habit of checking my responses to know whether I got reply or not. I am working on my notifications. However, I agree if I see that people do not bother to reply then I won't post my reply to them further. My time is also valuable and I can dedicate my time to the sincere people alone.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
23 Feb 18
This is mylot and people are free to do whatever they want as long as it's within the bounds of the guidelines. If we don't get responded to, then we don't have the right to be angry about it. You can't control everybody here and not everybody here has the same line of thinking as you. So don't let it affect you.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
Dear @toniganzon , you are again missing the crux of the discussion! I am not plead ing to respond me! I am pitting a point that having posted a discussion people forget about it and never bother to come back and see what happened to the discussion and who are all responded. Not only this , but then they keep on posting new discussion , some times in continuation of previous post! That attitude only irritates! This is my personal feeling and as you said I felt like sharing it here as I believe that is within the bounds of guidelines! Thanks! Have a nice day! God bless!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
Yes agreed that I don't need to irritated because of such people dear @toniganzon !
But some one has to bell the cat to get this point for the discussion on the site! Thanks! God Bless!
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
23 Feb 18
@AKRao24 It's because I know some people really intend to ignore and not respond. That's why I said that. But there are new ones who doesn't know how mylot goes and they think by mere posting a discussion they will earn from that and by people's comments.
You don't have to be irritated by those. Just do whatever you want to do.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Feb 18
I don't have time to focus on what other people do, I just focus on using my time to help others no matter what they do or don't do.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
I appreciate your views dear friend @LovingMyBabies ! But expecting a bare minimum courtesy from others is not asking too much from them, I believe?! Thanks! God bless!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
Dear friend @LovingMyBabies , this is not about what I am expecting...I am talking about all those members who sincerely respond to get a cold shoulder from the person who has initiated the discussion! I am talking on behalf of them! Thanks ! God bless!
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Feb 18
@AKRao24 When we expect things from others we will always be disappointed since we are all so imperfect.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
23 Feb 18
I miss many discussions , i always check the recent ones posted, but yes this happens and i noticed it . I stopped thinking about it .. just leave it
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
Agreed dear @prashu228 there is nothing much we can do about such people except for stressing ourselves! But then, one should at least have a look at the notifications which the site is providing for every response, like and mention we are getting for our response! Well , as you have said better to stop thinking about that now!Thanks! God bless!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
That is true dear @prashu228 ! Let us not bother ourselves now about them, as we have decided not to discuss about them any more! Just let them be as they are!
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
23 Feb 18
@AKRao24 lol..yes some even dont check their notifications..in that case they are losing not we...
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
23 Feb 18
There are people who never reply back to your comments. This is extremely rude. I understand that we all have our daily life and we can be busy and not get back immediately, but a but of good manners would suggest to reply to those who comment.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
When there is a scope of responding a discussion , I am sure you won't keep yourself indifferent dear friend @Plethos ! This statement I have made after going through few discussions initiated by you where you have responded most of the people who responded to your discussion! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
You means as many as nine to ten members respond you and you feel that you have nothing to say about these different discussions dear @Plethos ? No I am sure the responses had the scope to discuss further and the discussion was deliberately avaoided! Thanks ! God bless!
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
22 Feb 18
The people you are referring to have been around many times. From just my observation, I have found that members here mostly go back to those members post who will answer back. Members quickly take notice of people who do not answer back to responses and just keep making new post after another.
When they notice this, they stop visiting that person. In that case, the person who has not been answering back to responses either learn their lesson or you will see another post from them whining about people not coming to their post. Those who learn their lesson will mend their ways while those who don't will leave the site.
It's a constant cycle here!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Feb 18
You have a valid point and I was also almost on the same lines what you responded! but then I thought to have a discussion about it and get the opinion of others here! Thanks a lot dear @Daljinder! God bless!
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
22 Feb 18
@AKRao24 You are welcome! It is better to just go about answering to posts you like or to people you like. There are other fish in the ocean that are respectful of our time, thoughts and efforts we put into our comments and responses.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
I agree , in fact most of them are considerate and know how to interact with respect dear @Daljinder on this site, because of them only we like to participate here with open hearts! Thanks for your encouraging words dear friend! God bless us all!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
24 Feb 18
Yes, I agree why should they get frustrated? Instead we are getting frustration , as you said since we are expecting them to behave in a particular way!
Yes, I think , we should interact with the people who would interact with us!
That is fine, actually I just wanted to present my experience ! I am not in anticipation that every member reading my post would respond me dear friend!
This was just a discussion about my observation! Thanks a lot dear @shshiju! God bless!
@JESSY3236 (18923)
• United States
23 Feb 18
Some people are busy. I only get on here twice a week. And lately I have been sick so I wouldn't have responding back right away anyway.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
24 Feb 18
There is a solid reason because of which you were unable to respond which is understood dear friend @JESSY3236 ! That means as soon as you are free and feel good you have the intention of responding back!
But here I am talking about the people who just keep on posting the discussions without coming back to them to see what actually has happened to them and who has responded back! This makes me sick! Thanks ! God bless!
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
23 Feb 18
To those people I stop commenting on their discussions. You will make some friends here that life to read about your day, heartache, and happy times. Stick to those people they are the true mylot family.
EDIT: Okay I understand what you are saying. I went to your profile and I now follow you so I will see you in my feed. For some reason I thought I was already following you.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
24 Feb 18
Thanks a lot dear friend @andriaperry ! I agree to have some good member as our friends here with whom we can discuss our day today routine events!
But then being a human being my mind out of curiosity wants to meet new people and know about them!
Thanks for following ! God bless!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Feb 18
That means you are responding at least to the responses which you feel that they required to be responded back! But some people here are not bothered at all to respond to any of the responses they are getting for the discussion about which I am sad! Thanks dear @Hannihar for your sincere and sensible reply! God bless!
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