Why I've Been Missing for a Couple of Days

Part of the Garage that is Partly Organized Beside the Wall
@bagarad (14283)
Paso Robles, California
February 23, 2018 3:57am CST
Monday was a really bad day. The beating heart woke me up too early and kept me awake too long to get my full night's rest. My friend who comes to help with cleaning was due that afternoon, and I need to work with her in the garage for about an hour. I didn't really feel up to it, but I did what I had to. Tuesday I was feeling normal, but I needed to catch up with other things, like paying bills, cooking, etc. Wednesday my friend came again and we had an entire afternoon working on the garage project. We are sorting, decluttering, throwing away and recycling the stuff I have no use for and no one else would want. My younger friend does the heavy physical work and I have to make decisions about what goes where and sort some of what she uncovers. You see her in the photo. I pay her for helping but I work alongside her. Having her help motivated me to get my part done. This garage contains stuff we brought over in a hurry from the mobile home where my mother-in-law spent her last months after she died and our former tenants wanted to move back in at once. I found a whole suitcase full of new sheets still in the packages. I gave some to my friend who had beds the right size. The ones neither of us can use I may try to sell. I was delighted to also find my floating row covers in time for a hard freeze that night. I've been using old tee-shirts to cover my delicate plants but it's a pain to go out and remove them in the morning, and I sleep long after the sun is up. Now I can just leave them on my plants day and night until it warms up again. We worked hard yesterday, but still hardly made a dent. One reason the job is so hard is that before I moved here full time, some vandals broke into the house. I may have written about it here, but it was three or four years ago. They went into the garage and started emptying boxes and throwing everything around, and it was hard for me to get to every thing to clean it up. I was too busy planting and keeping the garden up, and I was also still in business then. So the garage contains merchandise left from my book business, gardening stuff, and things left over from my mother-in-law's house that was left after the estate sale that I hadn't had time to sort through. Some of what my mom had stored there is also still there. I'm hoping we will get rid of all the junk, organize what's left, and donate what I will never use before I die. The job will take several more hours to complete spread out between many different days. Then we also have to tackle what's in the house, and what's in the other house. If we ever finish the job this house may actually be livable again. After my friend went home and I had dinner and rested for a bit, I had to get a blog post up on my gardening blog and catch up with social networking. Today we had medical appointments in San Luis Obispo, and that meant going to Costco afterward while we were in that city. Then I had to start unloading the food from the car when we got home. We only get to Costco about once every month or two because it's so far, so it takes a lot of time and energy to unload when we get home. I still have non-food items to unload tomorrow. Also tomorrow I have to do another blog post and make a batch of chili. I'm soaking the beans tonight. I'm going to try it with small white beans, since we aren't supposed to eat kidney or pinto beans anymore. I normally use kidney beans. I'll let you know how all this goes. I hope to catch up on comments tomorrow because I should get to bed now. The photo is a "before" photo I took after we'd been working in this section for about two hours. The smaller shelving set had been full of stuff we had to sort and rearrange before getting it clear and putting what you see now on it. The box contains a shelving unit like the larger one with the books. My friend put it together and we organized most of the gardening stuff on it before the day was over. The stuff in front of the shelves we still have to sort. And this is only half of the garage. The other half is a bit more organized, but still needs sorting.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Feb 18
Gosh, you do have a lot to do. It is good that you have someone to help you. Such a job is always easier with a bit of help.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
23 Feb 18
Part of it is just the moral support. Part is that she is much stronger physically than I am. Part is that when I know she's coming I am motivated to get at a job that intimidates me when I'm by myself.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
24 Feb 18
@JudyEv It's already much better than it was. Rebekah has picked up all the stuff the burglars threw in my pathway. I was able to do a bit by myself today because I could get to it. I got rid of one box.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 18
@bagarad These are all good reasons to have help. I'm sure over time you will notice a real difference.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
23 Feb 18
try not to over work the ticker.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
23 Feb 18
That's the other reason it's good not to clean the garage alone.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
23 Feb 18
Can you use great northern beans in place of kidney beans in the chili? You have been very busy so I can see why you haven’t been here.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
23 Feb 18
Nope. We aren't supposed to eat Great Northern, either, just small white beans and black beans and a few other I've never used.
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@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Feb 18
That is a lot to do. That is great you have someone to help you.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
23 Feb 18
She is a marvelous helper.
@just4him (306354)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Feb 18
You have a lot of work to do. I know I didn't need to tell you that. It's just my first reaction to that picture. I'm glad you're getting help for it.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
25 Feb 18
Having the help is so motivating. Yesterday I worked without her on things I could do myself. I have to do some of the sorting myself. She just helps get the boxes where I can reach them and vacuums the webs out of them so I feel safe reaching in.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Feb 18
@just4him When we moved to this area we moved into a house half the size of the one we left and it took two U-Haul trucks to get here. It took ages to find somewhere to put it. I was raining in a downpour the when the trucks got here, and lots had to stay outside under tarps that would not fit into the house until it got dry enough to sort out what needed to go into out buildings. Then we inherited stuff from our parents' estates we had to deal with. But that's too much for this post.
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@just4him (306354)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Feb 18
@bagarad It's great you have her help. I know when I moved here, it took me about a month to get everything unpacked, sorted and put in its new home.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Feb 18
You will feel a sense of satisfaction once you finished the garage project.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
23 Feb 18
I will take a great deal of pressure off me, but the garage is only the beginning.
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